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People in Muğla said, “How lucky are the people who live here?” I don’t think so. Why not? Living in Muğla is more expensive than living in Istanbul. When we moved there, when we settled in Muğla, we saw that many people who had settled there after us had returned. For example, cargo doesn’t enter many neighborhoods. People who are generally unmarried and settle in Muğla or the surrounding area are often people who no longer have any expectations from life. For example, the current mayor, Mehmet Çener, is someone I voted for. I’m a working-class person, but he regretted it. There’s a municipal system that only works for the villagers he knows. Don’t be fooled by what you see when you go there on vacation. You absolutely have to experience it for a while. He started complaining a bit. There’s loud music playing. People drinking and talking late into the night, and so on. Yes, but I didn’t sell that house to those people. You did. It’s good to sell. After the pandemic, your 1-lira place has become 10 lira. All the districts of Antalya outside of the city center seem to be in a state of invasion right now. So, if you’re leaving your current location for a getaway, your new destination won’t change your life. If you carry the same things with you in your head, you’ve always been there, you’ve always been there. Nothing will be worth it for you. [Music] Hello everyone. I hope you’re all doing well. Many people want to move to Muğla, and we sometimes get questions about it. What are the rents like? Is it possible to find a job? Is transportation easy? Are the climate conditions really suitable for living? What are the rents like? What’s the social life like here ? Most importantly, I’ll answer your questions one by one today. If you ‘re wondering if you should move to Muğla, let’s start the video together. Most of the questions are based on these topics. Naturally, I’ve narrowed it down to about 20 questions. I’ll answer these questions very realistically, but there’s something I want you to know. This isn’t a disparaging video or a glorification video . So, based on our own experiences, I want to share the blessings and hardships we’ve experienced with you so you can make your own decisions. We sometimes witness them in our own circles. For example, a friend is on the phone. They’ve settled in Muğla, Köyceğiz, Dalaman, or anywhere else. We hear things like, “Come here. This place is beautiful. Sell your house. Let’s buy a place here. The nature here is amazing .” We don’t recommend anyone do that, folks. Let’s get this straight first. Because I don’t think it should be this easy to control people’s lives . If you listen carefully, you’ll understand what I mean by the end of the video . I received an email from Kübra Hanım. “Hello Özgür Bey. Moving from Ankara to the Aegean Sea is a dream for every sea-faring person. But if I hadn’t seen your Marmaris drinking video tonight, I was definitely going to go there, but thanks to you, I changed my mind,” she said, thanking me for giving up. He said, “You’re worth your weight in gold,” to a single mother trying to raise two young children . “Look, she has two children. She gave up, completely thinking about her children. This is the best decision you could have made. For example, we saw them in the village. They’re all brilliant, brilliant children . They speak beautifully. They communicate well. They look you in the eye and talk with a smile. But there’s this ache inside us. We feel sad. They only ride their bikes from school to home, from home to school. Their only fun is playing ball at school. School is very important. Education is very important, but as they say, a tree bends while it’s young. Maybe your child has a talent for the piano. Maybe they’ll play the guitar, enjoy repairing things, become an engineer. Let’s start with the first question. I actually have a reason for putting this question first . A follower named Sifu 48 left a comment like this: This is the first time I’ve seen a video with a truly realistic comment. “Well, I’m really annoyed by videos that constantly rush from the metropolis to ‘come and let’s all come. ‘ ” Well, this is the topic I was talking about earlier. Well, unfortunately, this type of content is quite common. You can watch a video for half an hour and only see the beauty. Don’t make a decision about living somewhere based on what you see, folks. Bodrum’s situation is clear. People can’t find water due to the lack of infrastructure. For example, he said it’s due to the increased population in the summer . This is a very realistic comment. Thank you. It might not be an answer to this question, but I made a footnote. I wanted to squeeze it in. I wrote that we have two air conditioners and occasionally turn on the electric heater. Because there are water shortages, there are power outages. The houses are old and have infrastructure problems. Now, keep that in mind. Let’s move on to the second question. The second question has appeared on the screen. Hello, my wife is a civil servant. I’m a private sector employee. We’re thinking of moving to Muğla. Does it make sense? First of all, thank you for the comment and I’ve actually answered the question. Which city do you live in? How old are you, and do you have children? I want you to pay attention to two important points in my question , folks. First, your age and whether you have children. The second most important criterion, in my opinion, is children. Since I haven’t received a response, I couldn’t give a detailed answer from the other party. But there are more questions about age and children coming up shortly. I’ll move on to question number three right away . A follower named “I came, I saw, I’m going” wrote in the comment. “I practically live in the heart of Ankara. Everywhere is crowded. The traffic is unbearable. Two hours in the morning, two hours in the evening are a waste of time. You come home from work in the evening, and you don’t have the strength to go to the grocery store to buy bread. Well , I guess there’s a busy work schedule. Normally, in this country, people work a little more than they earn . That’s why he said there’s no difference. I’ve lived in Muğla, I’ve lived in Hakara, I’ve lived in Istanbul. Thank you for sharing your opinion. I’d like to say this: As an Istanbulite, Istanbul’s traffic is some of the busiest in Turkey. I know that when I worked in the private sector, I used to leave work late and go to the gym . What you do, or how you take steps to do it, is also important. So, this depends on the person themselves. In conclusion, yes, this may be a straightforward and correct logic, but the expectations of people looking to move to Muğla can be very different. We’re slowly getting to those expectations. Now, question number four. Thanks for your video. My wife and I are civil servants and have two children. The child detail got in the way. We’ve been working in Adana’s district for 10 years, but it’s a completely deprived area. I’m torn between Antalya, Manavgat, Muğla, and Izmir, but I can’t decide. Izmir seems old, but I’m not sure about other places either. I want a place that’s both social and quiet. Your opinion is very important. If you have any recommendations beyond the places I’ve mentioned, I’d be happy to accept them . Thank you very much. Thank you too. First of all, let me say this. I’ve already answered. I wouldn’t recommend anywhere other than where you live and are used to . Why? Adana isn’t a small city. Even though you live in a district, I don’t think Adana is an area where you’re deprived of anything . I know Adana, by the way. Yes, life becomes very stagnant after a certain point. It can be difficult to find some basic needs, but rest assured, it’s even more difficult in Muğla. You mentioned being torn between Izmir, Muğla, Manavgat, and Antalya. Antalya may be the center of the city, but if you have a small child , you need to choose an area close to schools and hospitals . This might be the most logical place to start. It provides convenience in terms of daily transportation and safety. However, simply commuting from home to school and back may not be sufficient for your child’s social and cognitive development. You need to choose an area close to schools or hospitals . For your child’s health, your own health, and transportation, never choose a village-like neighborhood or any other district in Muğla . Don’t choose Muğla city center either. I’m stating this very clearly. Although there’s a university in the center of Muğla, we ‘ve witnessed the limited opportunities university students face trying to study there . Even though I don’t prefer or like Antalya myself, I recommend Antalya City Center. Because you have access to everything there. If your children have a set schedule, including yours, is it worth it for Antalya? You are the ones who will determine that. Your expectations will depend on your own. It depends. I can’t give a definitive answer. Whether your child is close to school isn’t a crucial criterion. I’m trying to say this after a certain point. Yes, what did he say in question 5? Let me say he’s a public employee in Marmaris. No one coming from abroad wants to live in Marmaris. Most want to be transferred to other cities. The houses are very old. Rents are incredibly expensive. Small, most of them small. American-style kitchens, very small rooms, poorly maintained. There’s no natural gas. Summer is very hot, so look at it as if it were a distant vacation. He touched on all the details . First of all, thank you very much for this detailed comment. This is a wonderful sharing of experience. He says the nature is beautiful, but when you constantly travel to the same place, it doesn’t feel different or enjoyable anymore. He says you even stop going to the sea . This is very true. Because human beings are inherently bored with what they have. To maintain this, they need to constantly create motivation within themselves. What is this motivation? They need to take up a new hobby . They need to say they really want to do it and take action towards that goal . For example, he said the houses that cost 7 million are very old. He said there are houses that could collapse in a minor earthquake. He said there’s a lot of noise in the summer. There’s shouting, screaming, and so on. Ünal Bey has pretty much touched on all the issues. These are the realities of Muğla , in a nutshell. This summarizes the realities experienced by many people in Muğla, and especially Marmaris . Because when you come for a vacation, the nature, the sea, and the calm weather can seem so appealing. The high house prices, the unfair rents, and especially the limited social life in winter— actually, not limited, but non-existent. The summer heat. Who might be bothered by this? It doesn’t bother me. I’m someone who loves the heat. Even if it’s 40 degrees Celsius, it’s blazing hot. I feel like I’m charging. I can walk in the heat. Even if I’m carrying a heavy load, the people who settle in Muğla or the surrounding area are generally unmarried, and they have no expectations from life anymore . We see people looking for an escape. Because the country isn’t the Turkey of 20, 10, or 30 years ago. Many things are changing. We’re globalizing, and urbanization and population growth are accelerating rapidly . Think more logically, not emotionally. Don’t be fooled by what you see on vacation. You absolutely need to experience it for a while. Live there for at least a month, maybe two. Keep one foot in the big city so you can observe it within those two months. You don’t have time. Go back to the big city immediately. So, create a plan like that . The first requirement for those who want to settle in Muğla is a solid savings. Yes. But is savings enough? I don’t think so. Have as much money as you want. You can travel by boat. You can live on a boat. You can live in a caravan. You can live in a caravan. But boats and caravans at least increase your mobility. You can leave and move to another place whenever you want. Living in Muğla is more expensive than living in Istanbul. Now, you might be surprised by what I said, but there are a few important reasons. For example, as I mentioned earlier, we have two air conditioners and we sometimes turn on the electric heater. Because there’s no natural gas, folks. Because there’s no infrastructure, internet infrastructure is lacking in most places. For example, we lived in a neighboring village of Akyaka. We lived in the Gökçe neighborhood. Even though it’s on the road to Marmaris, 15 minutes from Marmaris, and 202 minutes from Muğla city center, there’s no infrastructure. Well, I’m not surprised there’s no infrastructure. Because it’s perfectly fine there. We didn’t see anyone paying much attention to it. We used a brand’s superbox. Internet is crucial for the work we do. So, we were paying a monthly bill of 2,500 to 3,000 lira for this superbox. Because there was no natural gas, even though we had two air conditioners and occasionally turned on the electric heater, you couldn’t heat every room, the bathroom, or the kitchen. So, there’s no housing, no indoor heating system. Winters are harsh. Never think that just because it’s a southern Aegean or a summer vacation destination, winters are comfortable . It’s quite cold. That was one of the main reasons we moved. An incredibly high electricity bill. You pay. Your monthly bill is between 3.5 and 5,000 L. When you add up these bills, including the internet fee and the electricity bill, you already have an average of 67,000 L. You have an extra expense. For example, cargo doesn’t enter many neighborhoods. It goes either to the Muğla central branch or the branch in Marmaris. You have to go and pick it up yourself. So, you incur a certain expense just to get there. Naturally, we don’t drive much in Istanbul, for example. We don’t run our cars unless necessary , but you do run them there. So, you have an extra fuel expense. Because you need a car there, too. It wouldn’t be possible without one . Living there without a car wouldn’t be enjoyable, it might not be possible. Because if you’re going to enjoy those natural beauties, it would take at least a year. After a year, you’d start to get bored. Enough. Because what else are you going to do? Well, I mean, a car is essential. And then there’s the extra fuel expense. When you add up these costs, you could pay an extra 10,000,000 lira in Istanbul, for example, and live in much better conditions, or in a different metropolitan city . Look, even if you use the information I’ve given in just this minute as a criterion, it will influence your decision by 20-30% . I want to answer the sixth question. As someone who moved from Tekirdağ to Menteşe, the center of Muğla, 2-5 years ago, my advice to those coming is: if you’re thinking of settling in Muğla and doing small things, don’t come. You need solid savings. Rents are skyrocketing. Yes. That’s a bit of a summary of the previous topic. Muğla, especially after the pandemic, has exploded . For example, half-acre to one-acre properties have appreciated between 600 and 700,000 and 1 million, while after the pandemic, one-acre properties have appreciated between 10 and 15 million . So, I don’t know what determines this value. With so much demand, the locals wanted to capitalize on it. They saw it as an opportunity. Well, that’s a good point. Thanks for the comment. First of all, do you need a solid savings? I mean, having a job and financial resources is certainly important. You need a steady income, regardless of your age, wherever you live in Turkey . You have to sustain your life. Let’s say you have savings. You bought your house. You don’t have to worry about rent. This time, other dimensions of life open up to you. For example, there’s the internet, for example, healthcare, and socialization opportunities. You have income, and it’s sitting in a corner. Everything is completely closed in winter. There’s no one. Play the İçmeler video and watch it. I’ll leave the link in the top right corner. I touched on similar topics there, and I took a walk in the rain in winter. There weren’t many people around. There were a few tourists, so that’s it . There’s a transportation problem. Transportation is expensive, by the way. It’s not cheap. Shared minibus fares are expensive. The last time it took 15 minutes between Marmaris and Akyaka was 100 lira, 130 lira, or something. I don’t remember exactly . I’m giving a hypothetical figure. Because the last time I used it, it was probably 80 lira. For example, there’s an ATM problem. There wasn’t a butcher in the village where we lived. For example, in the neighborhood. On the Marmaris road. For example, there was one in Akyaka. There’s also one in Gökova. You drive from Gökçe to Akyaka to withdraw money. OK, it’s 5.56 minutes by car, 67 minutes by motorcycle, but you go to such trouble. You’re incurring expenses and wasting time. You pay a price even to meet your most basic needs . I want to say this. So, let’s move on to question 7. What did he say? Hello, Özgür Bey. I came across your video. I watched it. I was actually thinking of selling my house and moving to Feth. But with a family, as you said, Antalya city center made more sense. There are also a few more job opportunities there. Thank you. Regards. Look, I want to thank Ercan Bey. He received his payment, wrote his comment, and withdrew. Why? He has to think about his child. Let me also say this. One day, I received a message on my Instagram account. A friend lives in Istanbul. He’s a follower of mine. Thank you, he messaged me. He wanted to consult me ​​about some things. Mr. Özgür said, “We have a child. We live in Istanbul. We have a house in Istanbul. He also has a job. We want to sell our house and buy a house in Köyceğiz and settle there, but,” he said, “your After your video, we really had some questions. Because we’re asking our friends who just moved there. “Come here, it’s beautiful here. Come on, you too. They say it’s wonderful, quiet, and the nature is amazing.” But after seeing your video, we’re really confused,” he said. “No one told us these things.” He asked a few more details. After that , we became friends, we met, etc., through social media. I gave him all the details. I mean, it took a few days, and he gave up. Istanbul has a large population. By the way, I’m not praising Istanbul. I’m not saying that Istanbul is better or Muğla is worse, or anything like that. I’m giving an example because we live here, because we’re from here. So, what I’m saying about Izmir can also apply to Izmir, Antalya , and, um, Ankara. If you have your own private space, whether you rent or own a home, it doesn’t matter. If you’ve created a safe living space for yourself , meaning you can go home from work, my friend Gökhan told me that because we fish occasionally, we pick up the kid, we get our snacks, our tea, and we go by the sea, we fish in the Bosphorus, we go to the movies on weekends, we spend time together, and so on. They take care of the kid because I said, you can’t do any of that in your village. Okay, you can travel one summer, you go to the caprice of your village, you go to the second bay, you go to Dalaman , you go to Akyaka, Marmaris, you visit the bays. Go somewhere every week. No problem. Go two days a week. You’ve already finished that summer. Let’s say you’ve finished it next year. What are you going to do next? I mean, sitting and watching the trees, being among the birds and insects is great. Yes. But this doesn’t meet your basic needs. This is when introversion sets in. Because you can’t socialize with the outside world, you start listening to what’s in your head. Maybe you ‘ll start listening to your problems. Even if there aren’t any problems, you’ll start listening to the same things over and over again . Because you don’t interact with the outside world, because we are social beings, your development will stop. Whether you accept this or not, it will, my friends. Because the routine will repeat. The same things will start to happen again. How do we expand? In other words, how do we expand our energy, our frequency? By communicating with different energies, receiving information, giving information—even saying how nice someone’s shoes are as you pass by is an exchange of information. It will influence your next shoe choice. Because seeing those shoes that day will be beneficial. That goodness in your subconscious will perhaps enable you to make the right decision. So, there are many dynamics behind this. You need to make a careful decision. I told you, don’t do something like that. We talked in detail. A few days later, he thanked me. Brother, we decided not to sell the house. We’re continuing our lives here. Keep it. If you have your own private circle, a loop, a circle, it’s safe, don’t disrupt it. Don’t tear it up and leave that space. Question 8. Hello, esteemed professor. Should you settle in Manavgat, Serik, and Alanya, or Fethiye, Marmaris, and Didim? Your discussions are crucial. None. Again, where you live is important, of course, but I’m not saying this to be exclusive. If you’ve never lived in a large district like Fethiye, a major city like Antalya, or a city like Muğla, if you’re in a small city, and you think your opportunities are truly limited , then yes, it could be a stepping stone. You might consider it. I wouldn’t recommend Manavgat. I wouldn’t recommend Side either. I wouldn’t recommend Alanya anyway. All the districts of Antalya outside of the city center are currently under siege. They’re literally being swept up in concrete. There are also power outages, constant building construction, crowds, chaos—it’s incredibly ugly. So why do I say “center”? Because at least it has a hospital, a school, food, restaurants, a wide range of amenities, a cinema, and so on. Now, let’s get to question 9. The first thing anyone who wants to settle in Marmaris should know is that the worst house for sale starts at 7 million. Even the rent is 40,000. That’s true. I think the same. Friends. Look, I even prepared an answer for this. Let me share my own experience. It’s a newly built three-story apartment building, including the ground floor, with seven apartments. In other words, it’s a small apartment building. Well, it’s just a single block. It only has a pool three times the size of that table in front. It’s already empty. It’s filled with rainwater, with frogs and such crawling around. The apartments were built and sold. The developer left them as is. He didn’t do anything. He has this vision. Most developers are there. Let me tell you, friends. Whether you ‘re angry or not, it’s the truth. I’m giving you an example. They advertise 40-45 square meters for 30-35 square meters . You go in and see it’s 30-35 square meters. Due to inadequate infrastructure, there’s a smell coming from the toilets and sink drains. So, we stayed there for about 5-6 months . It was an open clinic anyway. Then we closed it. A year and a half ago, people were trying to sell a tiny place for, like, 45 million, and some people actually bought it because they didn’t know or research it. They just buy it with the mindset of “I’m buying a house in Muğla.” Some people invest their entire savings there, thinking they’re doing a good thing. It’s their own decision, of course. That’s our best wish. Have a good life. Continue your life with a warm family in that home. I’m not criticizing the people here. I met some very good people, some very good tradespeople. In fact, we left Muğla having made two good friends. We’re still in touch. I send my regards to all of them. After the pandemic, unfortunately, the locals have jumped at this opportunity. Despite this, they’re still looking for small deals. Of course, I’m not speaking for all the people of Muğla; don’t get me wrong. These examples exist all over the country. I’ll give you one example. There’s a neighboring neighborhood in Akyaka, the village of Akçapınar. I introduced it. In fact, it was probably the second video I started on YouTube. It’s a neighborhood with the Azmak River, a bit of tourism, boat tours, and the Akçapınar toast shop and Lovers’ Lane. Those who know know. There’s a young population there, mostly from outside. These young people are generally earning extra income without working, and those with a bit of wealth in their families. And because they’re young, they’re partly crazy, partly because they’re young , and partly because they’re young, they love to party, men and women. They love to drink alcohol, and so on. We can’t interfere with this , friends. People will experience this everywhere anyway. But this time, the people of Akçapınar are starting to complain a bit. There’s loud music . People are drinking and talking late into the night, and so on. Yes, but I didn’t sell that house to those people. You did. You should have thought about it before selling. It’s good to sell. After the pandemic, your 1-lira place has become 10 lira. He ‘s giving it away without a blink, because he’s rich. After that, he feels entitled to live however he wants, friends. And the people who settled here this time are unfamiliar with village life. Because they find it nice to be surrounded by nature , to have fun, to eat, to drink, to consume alcohol, to live a somewhat pleasure-oriented life. Naturally, because they’re unfamiliar with village life, the animal feces, flies, and insects become a bit of a nuisance after a while. Now the municipality complains. There’s manure here, we have a fly problem, and so on. The villagers complain, saying, “This time, they’re complaining about us.” They don’t know village life. They don’t have to. If you live there, you need to be a bit more like a villager. You need to go there with some understanding. But even if they don’t know, it’s not their fault. They don’t have to. When you sell or deliver things, I think you should filter them out and don’t complain. Because money is sweet. I don’t hesitate to say this. Someone needs to say it. Consequently, the population of people who go there is changing. The sociocultural fabric is also changing a bit. In fact, people have started disregarding the coastal law in Akyaka. Also on the right is this forest cafe and tea garden created by the Ula Municipality . This is actually a violation of the contract, which isn’t even in the operating agreement . Here, the Ula Municipality is one of the tenants of the Muğla Foundation. So, one of those third parties, one of the businesses operating here, is actually the Ula Municipality, which is unfortunately involved in illegal practices here. It’s saddening that the Ula Municipality is involved in this. Of course, I’m giving an example: the current mayor, Mehmet Çener. I voted for him too. I’m a working-class person, but I regret my vote. I send him my love, greetings, and respect. Some of you will be angry. You might ask why I criticized you , but I have the evidence now. I’ll show you all. Businesses that disregard the coastal law are on the rise. There’s a YouTube channel called Fethiye Gündem about this . There was even a video made about it. There was a protest in Akyaka . The coasts were occupied. You know the coastal law, folks. Everyone, all citizens, can freely use all the coasts. They closed it off with fences, etc. The people tore down those fences. In other words, they came face to face with the businesses there . I haven’t seen the district municipality, the Ula Municipality, stand with the people who carried out this protest . Because they built a cafe there, a cafe called Orman Kampı Cafe. They probably assigned that space to a municipality so it could utilize it. I heard about this on the Fethiye Gündem page . I don’t know how true or false it is. But I haven’t seen a statement from the Ula Municipality regarding this . For example , we saw attempts to round up dogs that were so harmless . There were similar dog poisonings in Akyaka and Gökova. Mehmet Caner, for example, came and stood by the protesters in that dog poisoning incident, saying, “We’ll catch them, we’ll find them.” A few months later, there was a dog named Belediye in Akyaka. He was looked after, loved, a dog that only lay on the concrete, making everyone love him. A few ignorant people complained. They took him to the shelter. The next day, a few animal lovers, using the power of social media, went and got him back. Then they complained again . Mehmet Cener was contacted, called. We shared it on social media, and so on. He’s completely oblivious. No one wants to contact us. You know, one day they’re like this, the next day they’re like that. This population increase due to tourism already causes traffic in Akyaka on weekends. It starts at the Gökova intersection on the Turnalı side . That traffic will almost reach Köyce Ceze. It’s reaching that level. Despite such problems, instead of considering the need for measures, the Coastal Law is being ignored. District municipalities are taking no action. Look, I’ll say something clear and direct: District municipalities lack depth. They lack management skills. They lack vision. This is a criticism. Please don’t take it as a negative word. Think about it this way: Not everyone can be a manager. Not everyone can be a mayor. They can’t be a teacher. They can’t be a police officer. There’s something in their blood, something in their genes, something about them. There’s a municipal system that does the work of the villagers they know. Let me illustrate this with an example. Maybe five or six months after we settled in Muğla, friends, there’s only one street in the village. There’s a school at the beginning of the street. From that school, from the road in front of it, there’s a road that leads into the village . There’s a street. And there are two streets connecting to this street. I suggested adding speed bumps to these street connections. I emailed the Muğla Metropolitan Municipality. This was before the election. There was a different mayor. The Muğla Metropolitan Municipality approved it. They emailed me back with the approval. They said it was approved. They said they would build a speed bump there. The speed bump wasn’t built until the election. The election happened. Mr. Mehmet came. I emailed him a few times. No response. One day, I visited him on Thursday. I tried for two weeks, but he might be in the field. He’s probably taking care of his business, etc. I said, “What do you think of the people of Gökçe?” “Here’s the beach, this is how we’ll build the wetlands.” Mr. Mehmet, I said, and I emailed. Approval was given. People are speeding on this street. Cats are getting run over. Just the other day, I said, a 16-year-old kid on a motorcycle with no muscle, crashed through the rear window of a car. He was completely devastated. I called an ambulance. It happened right in front of our door. He knew about it himself. The headman and a few other villagers went there beforehand . He told them about the accident, or something. He said, “Build a speed bump.” He called the Director of Public Works, Mustafa Bey. He also printed out the email confirmation and came to the office. He said, “Let’s make a speed bump here.” He drew the road on paper. He said, “This road,” he said. “There’s a school here,” he said. “A few streets like this connect to this street.” I said, “Yes, Mayor.” He asked, “Okay, do you want to speed up these street connections?” I said, “Yes.” At least they’ll slow down there so these street connections provide safe access to the street. Okay, he said. He said, “Akçapınar tomorrow .” He’s from Akçapınar, by the way, and he said workers from the municipality are coming to fix a few roads, I guess. Because Akçapınar is being fixed right away. He said, ‘Let them come there too.’ He said, ‘Give us your number,’ he said, ‘Let them call you.’ I said, ‘Let them call me, not the muhtar.’ Because the muhtar doesn’t do anything, folks. That’s for God’s sake. He ‘s earning his muhtar salary and sitting at the coffeehouse. I send him my love and greetings from here. Okay, I said, ‘How nice. Let them come here tomorrow and fix these speed bumps. Good, good.’ Mustafa Bey called me tomorrow. Özgür Bey said, ” They’ve got no excuses left.” He said, “Give me a break.” How much? “A little.” “2 weeks.” “He said 20 days.” “Okay,” I said. “I called 2 weeks later. He said, “Give me a little.” I called Mehmet Bey 2 months later. “President Mehmet,” I said, like this. Özgür said, “It’s started raining now.” He said some villages are flooding. ” Is it important that the villages are flooded?” he asked. “Is it important that the speed bumps are important?” Speed ​​bumps are important, my dear brother. Does someone have to die here for you to understand the seriousness of the situation? This is school street. I want to draw your attention. The school is important. The child’s life is important. The animal’s life is important. If Banena village is flooded, the villagers can prevent the flooding in front of their own door. Don’t worry, brother. And I sent him a message the following summer, a year later. I’m sending the message to him on the screen. Look, read it. We’ll come to the field and inspect it on-site. You know how you had it done? Are we going to come and inspect it on-site now? You already know the village like the back of your hand. You know where the speed bumps need to be built. I thanked you for coming back. Because I realized you wouldn’t do it. It still hasn’t been done. Three years have passed, friends. Come on, Mr. Mehmet became mayor. Come on, it’s been two years. When you go there and have a problem, no one looks at you. Let me be clear. The villager or the mayor there needs to have a child like that as a friend. Or you need to have a sesame field. It will open up to the world because sesame. Sesame opens up to the world. Don’t worry. Now, I want to get to the 10th question. Let’s add this about Marmar. The roads are very bad. You’ll pay the most expensive water bill in Turkey here. If you come as a tenant in Turkey , you’re in trouble. Anyone who can afford it can come as a tenant, but yes, the houses are old. New houses are very expensive. There’s no installation in the old houses. The winters are very cold. The reason Tuğçe and my wife didn’t want to go to Muğla anymore was because they were cold. That was the biggest factor. Bestes was our lack of socialization. It’s really, really a big problem. He says you’ll pay the most expensive water bill here. That’s exactly right. For example, in many districts of Turkey, like Karasu, there hasn’t been water for two or three months . Water is only provided for one hour at 10 a.m. Karasu Municipality, Sakarya, is a tourist destination. This year, it was empty. They fine you if you wash your garden or car during those hours. The municipality isn’t providing water to people right now. They only provide water for one hour a day. People have been living like this for three months. Do you have a house with a garden in Muğla? Call them immediately. Have them dig a well and install a pump. Water is gushing out everywhere. There’s no oversight . Of course, people should use the water from their gardens. There’s a certain degree of water, a certain measurement. They’re not thinking more about investing in the future . As you know, there was a fire in Izmir. A major fire. It ‘s three hours, three and a half hours from Muğla. I mean, I haven’t seen any villagers or citizens come together and say, “Let’s go to Izmir and help the people .” We went. There’s no unity, friends. I’m not saying this to disparage these people or the people there. They may not know such things . They may not have seen them. In other words, you can’t know if you haven’t experienced them. Well, a few months later, fires broke out in Köyceğiz, Akyaka, Turnalı, and Ula. For example, go to the Ula Municipality’s website. They take photos from anywhere and share them on the municipality’s page. Dude, you shouldn’t have time to take photos there. You leave the camera there . Stop filming the mayor there. The mayor is out there in the field talking to the gendarmes, talking about whatever. We’re trying to take precautions. What’s the connection, man? Well, the municipality already takes precautions. Don’t you see the fire department? The fire department runs over. The fire department takes precautions. You shouldn’t have that photo taken there. Take it. You shouldn’t have yourself taken either. You shouldn’t take it either. I don’t know. You should grab the end of a hose, or grab some twigs and run to the fire. This is municipalism that really gets to me. I mean, this is the language I understand. They love showing themselves through photos, my friends. They love it incredibly. This is usually what mayors and Muğla district mayors do. The Marmaris Mayor is the same way, guys. It’s all garbage. I ‘ve never seen a mayor send anyone to the beaches to collect garbage. I haven’t seen any land. I mean, a Gökçe Wetland area was cleaned. In collaboration with the Mediterranean Conservation Association and Ula Municipality. I shared that video, too. Because the Gökçe Wetland is home to many bird species . Not a single villager was there, folks. Not a single villager was there. Even some people from the municipality didn’t collect the garbage. They just glanced at it to see if any work was being done. They inspected it. The Public Works Department, the Sanitation Director. They smoked a few cigarettes. Then they went there. Municipal staff, like the Mediterranean Conservation Association, collected the garbage. Question 11. Two weeks ago, we were at the İçmeler Grand Yazıcı Hotel during the holiday. We really liked it. We also walked along the beach, but not all of it. Thanks to you, we got to see it all. There’s probably nothing to do except food in all four seasons. You can’t make food in all four seasons because everything is closed in winter. So, there’s no work in the restaurants either. It’s okay if the staff isn’t working. I’ll take care of the land, grow crops, and harvest. If you’re thinking of selling what you plant and harvest at the market to make a living, it won’t save you much. I don’t think it will contribute much. Now , I’m coming to question 12. Marmaris is a bit expensive. It’s not like a vast plateau like Ankara or Istanbul. There’s no natural gas. In some places, you burn wood stoves, but generally you heat with air conditioning. When you turn it off, the house freezes; the air doesn’t drop to freezing cold, but it’s cold, the houses are small, the rents are high, and most places are closed in winter. He’s summarized what I said. He said, “Look, you need your own car.” What does he say in question 13? It’s all concrete; it’s a disgrace. Especially the destruction Simpş has done to the National Park. A truly large forested area is being built in İçmeler, like a hotel. So much forest has been destroyed. It’s as if the fires didn’t happen in Marmaris, and the district municipalities aren’t taking any action or protests about it . The district municipality is the one who will motivate the public . What I know is this: Whatever you are, this is about nature. This has nothing to do with politics or policy. It’s about protecting nature, protecting it , and I see that as a grave injustice. Question 14. What was the key to your return to Istanbul? Ms. Rabia asked. Thank you, Ms. Rabi. What was the outcome of that decision? As a couple settling in Muğla , I’m frankly curious. It wasn’t enough for us. We had to leave because we couldn’t do the things we enjoy socializing, and the house needed some renovations, but they weren’t. We had to move out . Frankly, we didn’t want to go to a new house and spend the extra money. Why would I spend more money living in Muğla? Given these impossibilities, we decided we could return to our hometown. We could return to a place we knew, had fun, and lived happier for less money . And we thought it was too young for us, considering our age. Yes. I can recommend Muğla for people who have more distance from the crowds and noise, who are satisfied with their experiences, and who have reached a certain level of mental and physical experience. It’s after 60 , but for me, before 60, it’s too early. If you’re thinking of going to Muğla before 60, you know Tuğçe, a clinical psychologist . Istanbul has a very strong market share. If you’re in the free market, the advantage that the crowds of big cities offer you can’t be ignored. What was question 15? Oh, that. Gökhan Özer, my friend Gökhan Özer, is the first to write. He said they were considering selling the house and settling in a village. Frankly, as a family who moved from Istanbul to the Aegean region three years ago, he’s very accurate, very realistic, and very sincere. Look, they probably don’t regret it, but they’re genuinely searching for Istanbul. They definitely come to Istanbul from time to time , find that satisfaction, and then return to the Aegean. Otherwise, the nature is beautiful, and so are they. I think Muğla is the most beautiful city in Turkey. For example, I’d put Çanakkale in second place, and Kastamonu in third place. Turkey is a paradise. In other words, Turkey has no equal in the world. For me, Muğla is not Turkey’s only place in Turkey, with its sea, forests, scenery, ancient history, or gastronomy, but it still has a Yörük culture and food culture. It’s a magnificent place. I can’t deny that. But is it suitable for us ? We need to know. Let’s look at question 17. Let’s see. There are some interesting questions. People in Muğla say, “How lucky are the people who live here?” I don’t think so. Why not? You might see life here as luck, but for those who come here later, you might see it as a distinct privilege. There’s the sea, the forest, the tranquility, the nature, and so on. But this isn’t a random lottery. Most people take a risk and settle here. This luck isn’t given to anyone. There’s a lottery behind it all. We can talk about natural luck for the locals, but only to a certain extent. But they too grew up in the lap of nature, experiencing the sun and the wind. So, we can see these things as privileges . But we shouldn’t forget that there are also people who leave this world without fully experiencing life, without seeing many things. This is where the concept of luck or not emerges. The concept of luck becomes complex. These things may seem like privileges in the material world, but are they a value in the spiritual realm? Or is it simply an opportunity for a journey? We don’t know. Perhaps true luck is something like this: being able to experience life to the fullest. Living this life we ​​have with awareness. So, is this a chance or not? You decide. Let’s move on to question 18. Mr. Ezgür, it seems quiet because the season hasn’t started yet. True. When the season opens, the public can swim in very limited areas. Yes. What you see is 10% of the beach. He’s talking about İçmeler, Mr. Erdal. Thanks for the comment, by the way. İçmeler beach can get so dirty in the summer that you can’t even drop a needle on it. He says the sea can get dirty in many places, like Marmaris, Bodrum, etc. Crowding is inevitable. He also said it’s not a good place for a holiday because of the construction. Yes, I agree with that about Marmaris. For example, there’s an area called Armut Alan, or an elite area. It’s where new residences, apartments, and houses are being built. But in the summer, I hear the shouting of tourists drinking and squandering their drinks, the sounds of vehicles, the music until late at night, and so on. I’ve experienced that elite lifestyle, that kind of thing. Thank you, Mr. Erdal. This was one of the comments I was looking for . It’s not very different from this topic. Question 19. Which villages near the coast of Muğla, Fethiye, are open to new development ? So, where would you recommend for settlement? Mr. Sezgin asked. So, in Fethiye, there are areas like Göcek, Yanıklar, and Çalış. Göcek is already developed until it can develop, but it’s very expensive, folks. But these places are dead and boring in winter. Whether you live in Marmaris or Göcek or Çalış doesn’t really matter. Socializing is difficult because life comes to a standstill. But then, the same follower asked, for example, and responded to this post. So, where are the more affordable places near the center with schools, folks? Unfortunately, there’s no cheap place in the Southern Aegean. Even village markets are expensive. Rents are already competitive with big cities. There are no social amenities, no theater, cinema, venues, cheap food, etc. Well, we couldn’t find a cinema in Muğla. The existing cinema wasn’t exactly cinematic anyway. Let me state this clearly and directly. There are no cinemas, concerts, theater, or any of those kinds of activities. We went from Muğla to Izmir to the cinema. We went for three hours in the morning. We decided we’d at least go, you know, spend some time walking around. It’ll feel good, we’ll mingle with the crowd. It’s necessary because you want to go to the cinema, and we’ll come back in the evening. We went in the morning and came back in the evening , friends, we were home that night. Okay, we even spent some money. Look, this is a very key point I’m saying. Think about it carefully. So, if you think going to Muğla could improve many things, no, friends, if you’re going to leave your current location for a getaway , your new destination won’t change your life. If you carry the same things in your head , you’ll be there and then. Nothing will be worth it for you. The important thing is to truly develop a plan, a map, adapt to it, and adapt accordingly. Question 20. There’s no landscape, aesthetics, architecture, or vision in Turkey’s coastal settlements or tourist destinations. God bless you. He said, “That’s leaving too.” Unfortunately, it’s a very sad truth. I completely agree. I’d also like to add this, friends: there’s no such thing as nature left. Migration from major cities, especially in the Aegean and Southern Aegean regions, is the population increase outside of major cities . Urbanization is also increasing due to this population growth. As urbanization increases, culture begins to change. As culture begins to change, a place begins to resemble major cities . In 35 or 10 years, many places in Turkey will probably look similar anyway. There won’t be much difference. Naturally, both nature and the sea will begin to become polluted. Unfortunately, this doesn’t include the people of our country who are very environmentally conscious and sensitive to the sea. I say this with sadness, but do you know why you want to settle down? Really, your only goal is to get away from the crowds and have a quieter life . I work from home anyway. Okay, you might want that. Well, I could do without socializing. No way. That’s not the case. You need to have very specific circumstances, very unique characteristics. We all have an instinct for refuge in nature. I think this instinct triggers us a little, unconsciously . This triggering effect means that if you don’t make the right decision and plan accordingly, you might not be happy with your decision after a while. When we went there, when we settled in Muğla, we saw many people who had settled there after us return a few years later. And we were the last to return. Now, those two friends are left. I’m sending my regards to my brother Osman and my sister Dilara. Dilara is a teacher in a village there, a music teacher. My brother Osman is also in the construction industry, but when Dilara’s schooling is over, they said, “Let’s see, maybe we can go to the Fethiye area. ” You know, they gradually moved back from Bursa, but I don’t think they’ll return to Bursa, but maybe they’ll stay in Fethiye for a while longer . I hope this was helpful. If you know anyone who wants to settle in Muğla, definitely send the video. 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22 Comments

  1. slm muglaya yerlesemeyen yuotuberlar. gittikten sonra mutlaka kotuleme videosu cekiyor. sizde modaya ayak uydurmusunuz .dediklerinizin bir kusmi dogru ama istanbuldan nasil pahali olur anlamdim imkansiz .ben ortacada yasiyorum

  2. Çok bilgilendirici bir video olmuş,birazda birilerine sitem dolu video olmuş.Emeklerinize ve yüreginize sağlık.Hersey gönlünüzce olsun.👋

  3. 60 yaşında İzmir li(Doğma büyüme Egeli) olarak size kesinlikle katılıyorum,okuyan herkese şunu belirtmek isterim ki kitle turizm yapılan yerlerden uzak durun özellikle de MUĞLA dan yeri halk ile asla uyum sağlayamaz üzülürsünüz sizi yürüyen banknot gibi görürler aman sakın arkadaşlarÖzgür kardeşim konunu tam üzerine basmış,tamam gidin gezin lakin sakın yerinizi yurdunuzu terk etmeyin.saygılar.

  4. Karadenizdeyim.
    Çok güzel konuşulmuş, gerçekten tecrübeye dayanıyor.
    Metropolden herhangi bir ile taşınmakta aynı deneyimleri yaşatıyor.
    6 yılda 3 il değiştirerek yaşamış birisi olarak tüm konulara katılıyorum hatta belediyecilik ve muhtarlık konusu bile dahil.
    Kesinlikle tatil yaptığınız gibi değil, en azından iki ay farklı sezonlarda yaşamadan edinilecek bir tecrübe değil.
    Benim memleketim olan karadenizde bile insan kendini yabancı hissediyor, ne kadar olsada görgü ve uğraşlar istanbulda edinildiğinden adapte olmak için değişmek gerekiyor.
    İnsanın aklında şu oluşuyor neden artıdan eksiye düşmeliyim?
    Benim hayatım dolayısıyla mümkün ve bana artı katıyor olabilir maddi ve manevi ama ortalama çoğu insana uymaz. ( online çalışma)
    Çocuğum ilk okula gidiyor olsaydı benim içinde mümkün olmazdı ki biz ara form olarak kocaeliyi acaba yapabilirmiyiz diye eşimle denemiş, daha küçük kentler yaşamaya daha elverişli diyerek bu kararı almıştık.
    Özgür beyin bahsettiği çoğu konu bizide rahatsız etsede artılar ve eksiler ile düşününce artılar her zaman daha iyi olduğu kanaatinde bulunduğundan yada istanbulun güvenlik, deprem, trafik, yorucu olması gibi eksileriyle karadenizde yaşamayı sürdürmekteyiz.
    Buralara da çok talep var ve taşınan insan sayısı son 3 senede çok arttı görmesekte bir o kadar geri döneninde olduğuna eminim.
    Çok doğru ve faydalı bir video.

  5. Kesinlkle doğru.hem muğlada hem izmirde yaşayan niri olara kültür farkı cok fazla..

  6. Tamamen insanın ne istediği ile alakalı bir konu, maddi imkanlar el veriyorsa bir insan mecburi olmadığı sürece nerden mutlu hissediyorsa orada yaşamalı, çok uzunca yazılar yazılabilir, ama şunu soyleyim sıkıcı insan için dünyada sıkıcıdır, sabah kalktığında bir kuş sesi ile mutlu ve huzurlu olan insan İstanbul da yaşayamaz , kapıma kargo bile gelmeyen diyen insan Muğla'da yaşayamaz bu kadar basit

  7. Özgür bey çok güzel bir konu ele almışsınız ben finikede yaşıyorum bir yıl Nazilli'de iki yıl fethiye de iki yıl burdur'un bucak ilçesinde bir yıl marmaris te yaşadım bence fethiye tarafı yaşaya bileceğim bir yer aslında burda şurda yaşam derken insanların önce nasıl bir ortamda yaşamak istediğini düşünüp ne istediğine karar vermeli kimi sakinliği kimisi karmaşayı seviyor bir süre gitmek istediği bölgede deneyim yaşayıp öyle net karar vermeli hemen düzenini bozup gitmemeli hele mali imkanı kısıtlı ise düzenini bozup gidince yaşayamayacağı yerde mecburen yaşamak durumunda kalabilir gerçekten çok önemli bir konuya değindiğiniz için teşekkür ediyorum

  8. sn özgür bey mugla hayalimi sekteye ugrattınız 🙁 ama tabiki tecrübelerinizi dikkate alıyorum. kasis için ben şahsen kalın gemi halatı alır 2-3 kat yapıp yola kasis diye koyardım ( tabi bu konuda izin alarak yasak olup olmadıgını bilemem ) bu şekilde bir kaç yerde gördüm. kıyı şeritlerini gasp etmek konusu halkın mücadele etmesi ile çözülür.saygılar

  9. Ağzınıza sağlık Özgür bey çok boyutlu düşünmek lazım göç işini. Maddi, Ailevi, Psikolojik , dünya görüşü ve kişinin karakterine kadar uzanan boyutları var işin. Özetlersek :

    1 – Maddi ihtiyaçları çözmek , Yalnızlıkla bir derdi olmamak veya nitelikli çevre edinme beceresine sahip olmak
    2- Çocuk var ise Eğitim , sağlık ve sosyalleşme imkanlarını gözetmek
    3 – Ulaşım için mutaka araç sahibi olmak
    4 – Konut içinde Isınma ve Serinleme meselesine odaklanmak.
    5 – Psikolojik olarak güçlü olmak, kendini bilmek, zorlukları yönetebilmek, sabırlı olabilmek, az ile yetinebilmek vs.
    6 – Doğal güzellikleri , tabiatı sevmek, her gün aynı hayranlık duygusu ile çevreyi temaşa edebilme motivasyonunu kaybetmemek, şükür ve minnet duygusuna sahip olmak.

  10. Ilk kez dinliyorum sizi teşekkürler. 23 yıldır izmirde yaşıyorum. Eşim izmirli. Ben içanadoludan gelin geldim buraya devlet memuruyum. Uzun yillar köyde yaşadık. Soba ile ısındık 4 ay kışın soğuk oluyor. 10 yıldır ilçede yaşıyorum. 10 yıldır toplu taşıma çok güzel dağın başında ki köye bile günde 3 4 kez belediye otobüsü var. O açıdan çok güzel hemde tüm ilçe ve köyler içinde geçerlidir bu söylediğim. Sebze meyveye ulaşım başka yerlere göre daha kolay ve fiyatlar görece daha uygun. Merak edenler için söyleyim Menemen ilçesinde yaşıyorum. Ama bütün bunlar ilk geldiğimden beri böyle değil. Söylediğim gibi toplu tasima 10 yıldır düzenli ondan öncesinde eski köy dolmuşları vardı. Dogalgaz köylerde yok ama ilçelerde var. Foça ilçesine yarım saat mesafede özellikle yeni focaya marina açıldığı için oldukça revaçta ve Dogalgaz var. Yeni Foça da 1.5 yıl önce yazlık aldık ama ben sakin köy hayatını sevdiğim için bana fazla gürültülü ve kalabalık geldi. Çocuklarım genç onlar seviyor, eğer bi köyde oturmak isteseydim bu sefer onlar mutsuz olacaktı. 2 yıla kadar emeklilik düşünüyorum umarım herkes istediği gibi güzel bir hayatı yaşasın 🎉

  11. Selamlar, akşam izleyeceğim haziran başı ve geçen hafta gökovdaydım, izlemeden kendi fikrimi yazayım. 3 5 gün 10 gün için daha doğrusu tatil ya da dinlenme için belirli bir süre gerçekten muhteşem , neden ? bütün kaygılardan uzak geliyorsunuz, her gün dolu dolu geçiyor stres yok yaşama kaygısı yok geçinme derdi yok. ilk gün heyecanla yaptığınız dolu dolu keyifli kahvaltı bile günler ilerledikçe düşüşe geçip standart a düşüp monotonlaşmaya başlıyor. Bir müddet sonra aynı ağacı aynı bahçeyi aynı denizi görmekten sıkılabilirsiniz. her depremden sonra dünya tanıdığım gitti %90 ı döndü.
    işin özeti davulun sesi uzaktan hoş geliyor sanki.
    Ben cesaret edemem ya da etmem. Ama her sene tatile gideceğim 10 günlük zamanı iple çekerim. Yaşamak/tatil yapmak arasında dağlar fark var. Bırakalım o taraflar hayallerimizi süslemeye devam etsin.
    Bu arada neden döndüğünüzü hep merak ederdim özele girer diye sormadım 🙂 hemen hemen tahmin etsem de ne kadarı tutacak akşama anlayacağız:)

  12. 38 Senelik İstanbul yaşantısından sonra Fethiye'ye yerleştim. Taşındığımdan bu yana İstanbul'a gitmiyorum. Konu Muğla falan değil. Hayattan beklentilerinizle alakalı her şey. Genelleme yapılamaz. Kimisi kaosu seviyordur, kimisi sakinliği. Nasıl bir hayat yaşamak istiyorsunuz önce ona karar verin taşınmadan önce.

  13. 11 yıl önce İstanbul'dan Bodrum'a taşındım ve bu karara iki sene önceden hazırlanmaya başladım. Gerekli eşyalardan kurtulup sadeleştim ve gideceğim yeri tanımak için yıllık izinlerimi kış aylarına kaydırdım. Hazır olduğumda da taşındım, hatta bu geçişi 8 günlük bir bisiklet yolculuğuyla taçlandırdım.

    İlk 7 yıl, Bodrum'daki bilinen üç merkeze (Bodrum, Turgutreis ve Yalıkavak) ortalama 12 km uzaklıkta, yarımadanın tam ortasında ve 180 rakımda bir köyde arabasız yaşadım.

    Düne kadar köyde market bile yoktu. Akşam yemeği için yoğurt ihtiyacı olsa alacak bir yer yoktu ve "Bir akşam da yoğurtsuz yeriz ne olacak!" diyebilmek, bence taşınmak isteyenlerin sahip olması gereken bir zihniyet.

    86 milyonluk bu ülkede 86 milyon farklı parmak izi olduğu gibi, sorunlara karşı çözüm yollarımız, beklentilerimiz ve tepkilerimiz de farklı. Bize de size gelenler gibi yığınla soru geldi. Başlangıçta hevesle yardım etmeye çalışsam da, zamanla bana cazip gelenin başkası için aynı etkiyi vermeyeceğini öğrendim. Bu nedenle, bizim veya taşınmış diğerlerinin vereceği bilgiler ne kadar detaylı olursa olsun genel geçer kalacaktır.

    Örneğin, doğalgaz olmaması benim için cazip bir şeydi çünkü en baştan beri İstanbul'un konforunu burada yaşamak istemedim. Ancak çocuğu veya yaşlısı olan biri için bu çok önemli bir konfor unsurudur.

    Arabasız yaşamak zorlayıcıydı ama bu sayede çok insan tanıdım. Edindiğim arkadaşlar ve komşular, acil durumlarda yardımıma koştular. Pazara inmeden arar, "Bir şey lazım mı?" diye sorar veya "Gelip alıvereyim seni!" derler. Bunlar, şehirde yaşamadığım dayanışmalara sadece bir örnek.

    Karşı komşusunu tanımayan bir şehirli profiliyle Bodrum'a gelip aynı şekilde kalmak, "Ne değişti ki?" diye sorduruyor insana. Köy minibüs şoförünün bir serzenişi aklımdan hiç çıkmaz: "İyi hoş geldiniz aramıza ama burada bir ev aldın diye beni de satın almış gibi davranamazsınız!" Üstten bakan, talepkar, ben merkezli bir profilin gelmeye başladığını gözlemliyorum. Nerede yaşarsa yaşasın mutlu olamayacak, park yeri için tartışan, her şeyden şikayet eden insanlar var. Köy evine taşınıp tezek kokusundan şikayet eden, bahçesine giren tavukları kovalayan, eşeğin bağırmasına çıkışan, hatta sosyal medyadan domuzlardan şikayet eden bir kafa yapısı…

    Altyapı sorunları doğru ama özellikle pandemi sonrası büyük göç alan Muğla, zaten kurak bir bölge. Bahçesini çimle kaplayıp var olan bir avuç suyu harcayanlar, sonra "Su neden yok?" diye belediyeye sitem ediyor.

    Biz de, hatta gittikçe ağırlaşan koşullar altında 11 yıldır bu bölgede yaşıyoruz. Bir gün bile İstanbul'a dönmeyi düşünmedim. Kışın mekanlar boşalsa da kendi sosyal çevremizle mevsimin tadını çıkarıyoruz. Soba kurduğumuz için elektrik gitse bile üşümüyoruz. Burada kış soğukları için çok güzel bir tanım vardır: "O kadar soğuk olur ki küsleri bile barıştırır." Soba ile ısınmak, elektrik faturalarımızı da ciddi oranda düşürdü. 2014'te 1700-2000 TL bandında fatura öderken, 2024 kışında 250 TL'ye kadar indi.

    Kargomu, çöpümü, pazar alışverişimi kendim yapmak, tamirat işlerini çözmek… Bunlar şehirde yapmadığım ve oldukça keyifli uğraşlar. Muğla'da yaşayan bizlerin vereceği tavsiye ve fikirler bu yüzden genel geçer kalıyor. Çünkü her şey kişiden kişiye, yaşına, medeni durumuna, çocuklu olup olmamasına ve en önemlisi zihniyetine göre çok değişir.

    Güzel videonuz için teşekkürler. Diğer yayınlarınızda görüşmek üzere Bodrum'dan selamlar.

  14. 2 Yıl önce, eşim ile beraber İstanbul/Kadıköy semtinden Muğla/Fethiye ilçesine taşındık.
    Taşınma sebebimiz, İstanbul'un yorucu, kalabalık, afganlı,pakistanlı vs..pahalılık ve aslında ufak bir çemberin(kadıköy-bostancı arasında) içerisinde yaşadığımız hissi bizi çok yormaya başlamıştı.
    Öncelikli olarak avantajları
    – Mutlaka bir işiniz olmalı. Biz sigorta acenteliği yaptığımız için hayatımızda birşey değişmedi. Yine aynı bildiğimiz işi yapıyoruz. Çünkü işsiz güçsüz emekli hayatı sürülebilecek bir maddiyat burada da yok.
    -Yaşlarımız 45-40 ve çocuk yok ve düşünmüyoruz. Özel okullar çok fazla aynı marka okullar var fakat duyduğum şu fiyatlar yarıya yarı daha ucuz olduğu söylüyorlar.
    -Her an deniz, marmaris,kaş ,köyceğiz gitmek gelmek çok rahat .Hafta sonları çok keyifli geçiyor.
    -Kadıköy'de apartman dairesinden aldığım kiraya havuzlu villada yaşıyorum .
    -Kışın etkinlikler, devamlı organizasyonlar bitmiyor. Kışın çok keyif alıyoruz biz sosyal hayat ve trafik ve insansızlıktan. Yediğimiz , sebze meyve tatlarına girmiyorum bile…nefis..

    Avantajları çok fazla gelelim negatif durumlarına..
    – Fethiye'de 2 adet özel hastane var fakat yetersiz. Muğla merkez , Denizli ya da Antalya yakın hastane lokasyonları.
    – Çoçuğunuz var ise çok güzel büyüyecektir.Deniz,Sokak,sosyalleşme vs ama eğitim kısmı nasıl bilemiyorum.
    -Bizi en rahatsız eden konu , doğalgaz yok.. Villa da yaşayınca alt üst kat vs sıkıntılı oluyor. Şömine giriyor hayatınıza,odun giriyor hayatınıza vs vs ..
    -Temmuz-Ağustos ..inanılmaz sıcak.. inanılmaz ama…Bu 2 ay denize bile gitmiyoruz,sokağa çıkmıyoruz. Ofis-araba-ev klima..

    2 yıl geçti , çok mutlu ve keyifliyiz .İstanbul'a gitmeyeli 1 yıl oldu. Aklımıza bile gelmiyor. Bunun yerine, İzmir-Antalya arasında çok güzel lokasyonlara çok uygun fiyatlara ( nisan mayıs-eylül ekim) gidip yiyip içip kalabiliyoruz.

    Herkesin gönlünce ve istediği gibi olsun

  15. Bu sorunların hepsinin çözümü: Yalova. Her yere 40 dk. yakınlıkta. Hava her zaman serin. Havası, suyu güzel. Gelmek isyeyene yardımcı olurum…

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