JAPONYA’DA TÜRK BİR KIZ | SELİN TOKYO İLE JAPONYA’DA İŞ,EVLİLİK VE YAŞAM

JAPONYA’DA TÜRK BİR KIZ | SELİN TOKYO İLE JAPONYA’DA İŞ,EVLİLİK VE YAŞAM

I came to Japan 9 years ago, it’s been a while. They were asking me, “Can’t you even do this much? How slow are you ?” I mean, it’s incredible, how did you cope with this? Well, what else do I know? I’m thinking “I’m going to go down or out.” The situation is bad.

That period was the most stressful period of my life. Look, they were looking for a man. Oh my God, he writes something very different, if you say rich women are children, you said child, I didn’t say it now and

He bought me such an aesthetic package before marriage, it was forbidden, he took it off as soon as you put it on, men leave and women don’t see it as cheating, Jackie Chen has come, what is he doing, Jackie Chen? ‘s is here

From Tokyo, Japan. Greetings to everyone, how do my friends sing like this? I have a special guest today. They are my mother. They went crazy. My mother was excited. They are my guest here. Hello, how are you? I am fine, how are you? Thank you,

My guest today is Selin. Hello, I am Selin. Let me tell you my surname, maybe it will be interesting. Selin Tokyo Tokyo I was going to ask that. You directly said, is it really Tokyo? Is your surname really Tokyo? I am married. My wife is a Japanese citizen now, but she was originally

A South Korean citizen. While changing, you can choose a surname for yourself here. She also chose Tokyo. It’s a bit like that. When yours is Tokyo and hers is Tokyo, I am when I get married. I became Tokyo in 2017.

It is interesting that the Japanese are also very surprised, it seems so strange that they ask, ” Does it actually say Tokyo in e-government?” It actually says Tokyo in e-government, but no one calls me Tokyo. At first I thought it was something like a nickname. It’s nice, interesting,

Everyone thinks so, everyone thinks so, no one. Tokyo doesn’t believe me, it doesn’t stop with me . We will go to the Yogi park with you. Let me present my gift like this. It’s a shame. I didn’t do anything, astaghfurullah. You are a guest. It

Has a very nice package. Then I will hang something for you. It doesn’t matter. We can have something to drink, maybe coffee. etc. You didn’t offend me. Thank you for coming. We are in the ninth kuu right now . Center But it’s a bit more

Like it’s for young people, it’s more like China Kuu, it’s more hotels like this, it’s big hotels, it’s easier, it’s easier to go left and right here. My job is here, too. Kuda Let’s talk about business. Actually, it’s mostly business in Japan, to talk a little about those issues.

First of all, when did you settle in Japan, I couldn’t ask the question, how many years ago did you settle? I came to Japan 9 years ago, it’s been a long time, I wanted to study abroad, I was attending fairs like this, I was wondering which

University to go to in Turkey, so I found a Japanese school there, but it’s not a university, it’s a Japanese school. There was a stand promoting the school. I went there and met him. I was very pleased. I suddenly decided to come to Japan. It lasted for about a month and a half.

I was very pleased with the course. It was such a turning point in my life. I was very impressed and said, “I will definitely study here. I will immediately go to universities .” I started to apply and so on. Then I came as a student.

My first adventure started as a student. I was a student for about 2, 2 and a half years . I wanted to In the meantime, I met my wife. So, it was like life dragged me here, towards living here, towards settling down, Japan attracted

You then. Yes, that’s exactly what happened, the work took longer, we got married with my wife, and it ‘s been 9 years. Actually, it’s a bit interesting. Yes, I wanted to talk about it. I came to Japan for the first time in 2018.

I came back about 5 years ago. I am my uncle Narita. In fact, my girlfriend at that time is my current wife. In fact, you might be the first to see me. I don’t know, for your sake, she came to the airport. There, at the counter, if I’m not mistaken,

Struggle with something. Was there a passport question? What happened to me? There is a person waiting to hold a path. Let’s pass. I wanted to help. That ‘s how we met at that time. Actually, I saw a Turkish passport from there. I am Atatürk.

There was an airport at that time, it was 2018, we landed, we were talking, chatting, chatting, but actually I was talking about Japan. You are at the top of my thoughts about whether I can live in the future. When you were talking like that,

I put you in a corner there. At that time, I remember you very well, just like that, in Japan . You wanted to ask a living person. What should I do? You were working in Istanbul. I think I was still working in Turkey in 2018.

I was working in a hotel in Sultanahmet. At the reception, I already quit that year, I resigned, I took that money in compensation and came here . But I want to quit and travel the world. You remember him ? You asked me, you

Said, “Do you think I should stay at my job and get promoted? Should I do something like that? Or should I travel the world? What do you think?” I said travel the world. Yes, I don’t remember that. Do you remember? I think

He might have listened to you after that. Yes. But I think you’ve already made up your mind, someone tell you out loud, don’t push me like this, I was like I already had that thought, you are also working here at the hotel, aren’t you?

We were working at the hotel in 2018 when we met last year, so I changed a lot, a lot of work. Change, the reason I asked about that is, you know, when you work in a hotel like this, people from different nationalities come and you chat and chat, Italian, French, European, American, Asian

, you want to go and see them, you want to get to know those cultures, it is very effective too. That’s right, you know a lot of people, I brought them to your park. Let me buy something, the bar is too much, we will buy 500 tickets,

We will probably enter the yoyogi park here. A weekend event is coming here, it distracts the mind, of course, being a central place, there is an incredible crowd on the weekend. I already know that in Tokyo, there are a lot of photographers

To improve their skills. Maybe you know that they are looking for mods or something. Now, you have to get permission to take pictures. In Japan, you can take pictures everywhere, except in parks, without permission. Oh, I didn’t know that. Everyone brings them here. It’s

Nice Japan. The rule means permission. Sometimes I’m surprised by something, for example, when people’s faces appear in videos. We were shooting videos that were strictly forbidden. In a company where I worked, all such customers left the faces of the people in the video. They never found or gave it away. There

Was a time when I had such an argument with my wife, while I was visiting Japan on a bicycle, I entered the highway by mistake, 4 police cars came. You know, the name tags

Of the police officers. When I show it to you, my wife is like this to me because the sky is very bad at home and of course when the police are molis, your wife is Korean You know the Korean cold better there, Bekir She is so used to the cold that

I see the little children wear socks and take off their coats so that they can get used to it, if only we had it. tars a my child should not get cold Actually it’s a good thing to get cold so for example

Actually it’s a good thing look how nice the child runs like that, you know the body gets used to it, it becomes more resistant to the cold actually it’s good look look look look I started working when I was a student So let’s start from the first student

You came as a student 2 this5 Did you say years? Yes, 2.5 years. I did my master’s degree. 2 Let’s start with the situation in the beginning. So, you came at first. You were a student for 2.5 years. How did you stay here?

How did you manage to find a place to stay? I told you that I came to a Japanese school. There, I was a family stay. I tried to stay with you and I already met a family thanks to that school. How did you find me? Well, the Japanese School arranged

Them for me. They found them all. I sent the family to school with my own characteristics. They found a family that could accept me according to my characteristics. That’s how we first met, and then I went back to Japan for my master’s degree. When I decided to come,

I wrote to the family again and said, “I’m coming, I want to stay with you. After that, I was staying with that family first. Do you pay any fee? Yes, quite a bit. You pay a fee like rent. Why, with a family, I don’t like going to a house alone.”

I didn’t know Japanese, I didn’t know the culture at all , I never had the idea of ​​coming to Japan, it was just a coincidence, I was going to go to Germany or America. I was going to go to graduate school, that’s what I thought. You know,

You know that culture a little more. You don’t know Japanese. I said, “Stay, they can teach me as well as show me the way.” It is necessary to open a bank account. You need to buy a phone. How do I do it? We went to a bank to teach them all.

It is impossible without knowing Japanese anyway. The procedure of opening an account is already 1000 papers, this is a blood crime, there was a very confusing thing, I guess it is still like that at first, there is hanko, well, the D insinuation

Does not accept it, for example, stickers, Han kosu, there were a lot of things like that, that’s why he is with the family. I wanted to stay, things were included in the price I paid, for example, they were washing my clothes, that is 90,000 per month. Yes, where was I staying,

It was on the Saem side, there are people sending messages, there are people using shir house, a few people staying with this family also wrote messages to me, it makes sense,

But if what you did was, you know. Yes, it is a good way if they want to get to know Japan and learn Japanese. Because you become involved in the life of that family. The family I stayed in had two daughters, the eldest was 30 years old. The father

Was working and they were telling about their own business. They were teaching them how a Japanese family lives and what they do. They were celebrating their special days with me . I wanted to have that experience. Did they know English? Did they know it at all?

I wanted that too. Actually, know. Look at how nice it is. I went to my wife’s parents, they don’t speak English at all. They stayed with me for 4 days and 5 days. Isn’t it better? I don’t understand it for the first day or two, but after that. You know,

Movements, facial expressions like that, A is trying to say that, etc. I try to figure it out like this, and my wife is usually like this, when it is a mixture of English and Japanese, the Japanese taught by them and the Japanese taught by my wife in a few days corresponds to almost

A year. You know, it comes to your mind right away, what is the Japanese word for this fork? How was your school life ? School life was so good for you, I can’t even explain it. My school was a good school. I was lucky in my life. I’m glad I came.

I didn’t regret it even a day. How nice and bad. I had days when I was very broke. Did you know that I studied Japanese before I started school? It wasn’t there before I started school, because my school is called Sofia University. It is known as a global university in Japan.

The language of instruction is English, almost all departments are English. A is very good before I came here. Japan wasn’t there before 2 bu5 You weren’t there anyway. I was going to study English anyway. That’s why I honestly

Didn’t think about coming back after learning Japanese. Let’s say they want to learn Japanese for someone coming from Turkey. Let’s say I want to talk to you a little about that, because you crossed those thresholds a little bit,

You learned it the hard way. What advice? What kind of a path should they follow to learn Japanese? He doesn’t have any knowledge of Japanese, but he wants to come and live in Japan

. I guess he will learn in Turkey, that is, he will start learning in Turkey. So, if you want to start learning before coming to Japan, I am actually interested in all languages, not just Japanese. I don’t know about that language,

They have heard it very often. They watch movies, TV series, that kind of thing from everyone, they watch something they are interested in, it becomes enjoyable to learn, after a while, it becomes familiar to the ear, my wife definitely recommended it like this

: If you want to study some Japanese, there are children’s movies , such as Doron etc. Maybe there is ampaman or something. My wife tells me that your Japanese language is kodomo nihongo etc. kodom. Watch them or something. It’s children’s Japanese.

It’s not something I know how to learn Japanese in anime and then come and speak here. They don’t do anything like that. Well, these reactions are a bit exaggerated in anime, I mean, the anime is not bad, actually. It’s a start. I

Know everyone says something like that in Japan, they don’t speak like that in daily life, they say that daily life is different, but now in our country, maybe they don’t speak Turkish in daily life as they do in TV series and cartoons , but still,

Those who watch those TV series learn Turkish, there is a language of respect, you know, different friends towards father. It’s different for you, it’s different for your boss, I’m in that job, too. Let me tell you something about the points that I have difficulty with. Even the Japanese people

Have difficulties because they call it kgo, which means polite language, polite language also has a polite form. It has different levels. Sometimes my Japanese friends ask me how it is said very politely, etc. You have to speak kgo in the hotel, you have to learn it, respect. You speak in your own language,

Your friend is coming, you have forgotten that he is polite to your friend, you talk so much, some of them are like this, I wonder why he talked to me like this, did he keep a distance, they think such things, as long as I was working at the hotel,

After leaving there, I was talking to everyone, it was so strange to all my friends. It’s very strange, I mean, think about it like I’m talking to you very politely. How are you, are you okay, I hope you’re well, I had a hard time changing Japanese, let’s move on, what’s the order,

Mashallah, you’re like this, I don’t know if we can line up, I can enter, is it because of Japan’s difficulties? Oh wait, you’re down there. I was going to take you here, it has a beautiful lake, man, how nice you laid down,

I wish I could lie down like this, I swear, you’ve been here for a long time, I’m trying to put the puzzles together. You came and stayed, did you talk about work? How did you find the job? Well, I guess we didn’t talk about work,

How did you get into university business events here? After my graduation approached, I decided that I wanted to work in Japan , so I extended the school for a year. Because there is a job finding period called kats, you have to do it before graduation. They impose such an obligation on you,

It’s not an obligation, it’s the culture here, it’s not a legal thing, of course, but is it due to the invisible rules or is it like finding a job after graduation here? It’s very rare, maybe some Japanese people do it, but there is such a social culture, I mean

Before you graduate. You have to find one. So, first I extended the school. For 6 months, companies like this were coming to our school to look for a job. You know, there are career weeks in universities in Turkey, they were coming to promote their own companies, so

I joined them. I found the hotel where I first worked in one of them, their human resources came to promote me. They attracted me to do it. To be honest, at first it seemed very nice to me. I was working in a hotel called Ko Plaza. It

Belongs to a group called Ko Group. Maybe we know that. I think Turks are also famous for such cars. Marab K is related. All I know is that there are trains on the train line. There is also Ün University, isn’t it University University? Yes

, that’s exactly how they are. I guess that’s how I got the job at first. Your Japanese was very little at that time. Were you one of those who studied Japanese so hard in the beginning? No, I wasn’t, I was just thinking that I was going to come to study

And return to Turkey. And as I said, my lessons were. I always studied English in an English department, why didn’t I learn it? First of all, I wanted to live my university life to the fullest. I

Wanted to continue that way a little longer, I studied Tab Kiers, but I wanted to experience everything here, I wanted to experience it, I wanted to travel, there is such a movie, Jim Ken. in yes yes Man, there is such a unit. He says yes to everything, cim K, and his life

Changes. Exactly, were you behaving like that back then, just like in Cim K’s movie? I said, “From now on, if I’m offered something, to travel, try something new, I won’t say no right away, you know?” I thought I would say yes and

It went very well, but that way I experienced a lot of new things, made a lot of friends, went to a lot of places, you were completely immersed in this Japanese culture. What I remember about you at that time

Is a Japanese thing in a conversation at ATK airport, how did you learn it, I guess? You told me it’s a shame, I studied like a donkey for a while, that’s what it’s supposed to be like to learn Japanese, that’s what happened when I started my job, you could explain it better,

It’s not like English, you know, you have to repeat it all the time, memorize words from left to right, you hear it, but Japanese is much more global . Since it is a language, you will constantly listen to music and talk to people, it is very difficult otherwise they use hookers.

The alphabet, hiragana and katagan, is relatively easy for us, or rather, it seems easier to us, but when I passed Kanye, at the end of 2-5 months at school, we passed Hook, I don’t have anything after the first lesson anyway, I can get that with practice, say kan,

You will always get a notebook like this, and I think after business life. For example, do you have any advice for those who want to learn Kanci or a place at school, for example, those who work hard and regularly can learn Hook, of course, but

After I started my business life, I had to use Kanchi, all my business correspondence was done through Kanchi, I would send an e-mail and I would save that e-mail, then I would use it like this to work later. They use this word like this here. You know,

I always kept it like this as a draft. When you are in the infrastructure, you know what to learn and how to learn. The people at the top were teaching me exactly like this. For example, this is how you

Send e-mails about this subject, this is how it is written here, I was writing them, I learned that way, sometimes the kanin is very different. It has a feature, there are people who can’t understand what they mean when they see blood, but can’t read it. Hook is such a strange thing.

In short, you tell those who want to learn blood that you will study, you will practice a lot, you will find Japanese, you will speak it all the time. Of course, this is valid for any language. If your foreign friends living here are in

An environment where they can speak English, for example. If there is such a community, they are in such a group and they can survive even if they do not use Japanese. Japanese is not developed. Yes, some foreigners have that too. It means finding a job through English. They say, ”

I will live here for a year or two. I don’t want to get into that ball in Japanese.” There are people who live like that, too. I have friends who have lived for 5 years, I have friends who have lived for 6 years, they are married here longer than me, they

Have children here, and they continue to work with their jobs. Then it is not good. Japanese is not good then, they don’t need it, do they? They don’t need it, sometimes their jobs don’t require it, but in Japanese,

The subject is like this. Come on, talk about it, there is a good angle there. I caught the ducks, you passed the Japanese part this way, good. After that, you worked in a hotel, let me say you lived in the hotel, you lived in the workplace,

If you talk about the problems in general, not in the hotel, the first things that come to your mind are: Yes, I was in a public relations position there , it is a Japanese company, they have very strict rules, they are not flexible at all. My

Colleague couldn’t speak English. Koo is an old group, so all the employees are very old. I mean, everyone has been working there for 30 years. It’s like you don’t have to be careful, you have to be extra careful

. Yes, the people in the position above me were like that, they were so harsh, I can’t explain it anyway, I can’t speak Japanese. For example, they wanted me to get on the phone. Okay, I’ll check it. Of course, I don’t know any Japanese. This time, it will be a shame, it

Rings the other person, I don’t answer it, or I answer it, I don’t understand, I’m saying something wrong, can’t you even do that much? They were saying to me, “Put it on, they tell it to your face, tell me inside, these old people have it at home.” It was very harsh and

Their reactions were the same. I’m busy right now. Can’t you see how slow you are ? It’s incredible. How did you deal with it? Well, that period was the most stressful period of my life. I got sick. It’s really like this.

I have body pains from that time. Let me just say that. I wouldn’t call it evil or evil, but was it in a good way when you behaved so harshly and harshly like that? I got very angry and said that I will be so good that you will see, and I

Worked for 2-5 years in the place where I complained so much, but you don’t put your mind to it, I will learn this language, they were behaving very badly. You don’t know anything about something like this , you want to talk to my wife about it. Oh my God, is it

You? The client is the face. You seem to be living right now. That’s the case with the Japanese in general. Years have passed, for example, you still can’t forget it. Most likely, even if 10 or 20 years have passed, you won’t be able to forget me either.

They say it’s a bad Black Company, let it slide, that is, they say that it is a bad situation for its employees who apply so much mobbing. The avalanche of people attacking the Han is not a special case. Let’s say that , this situation is common in general. Mine

Is a very traditional Japanese company and there are international companies and foreign companies. They are not like this at all. working with foreigners Companies that have relationships with investors are not like this at all. Of course, it’s nice to come across a job, but of course,

There are a lot of foreigners who have the same difficulties as you, and the service sector is like this in Japan. As you know, there is such a thing as omeni . The customer is God here, so you are a robot, stop. Do you understand? You can’t show any emotion,

You don’t become a human, from that point on, they say thank you at home, they say Alat, they thank you as they leave. You stand there for a minute, you don’t stop, but they thank you at least 10 times. Let me tell you something, I

Have a plan for something very different, obviously. Two in customer relations. We were working at a desk, a back office, an office where we worked inside.

There was also a desk where we were in front of the customer, the one they call Kay, that is, if you just enter, he works very hard at the outside desk. At first, it was so cold that the desk was

At a very big reception, especially in winter. That’s why I swear, it was outside. It would be warmer if you stood still. It was cold and there was a draft between the two doors . Our uniforms were not changed into winter clothes

With linen. Well, you know, I should wear thick socks like this. You could at least wear them underneath. You know, it was forbidden to stay warm. They would make you take them off as soon as you put them on. There was a machine,

They call it a vending machine. You throw them away, they make you take thin socks, we were getting sick in the cold, all of us. My superiors were also getting sick. And since you were sick, it’s your fault. You shouldn’t have been sick. After you got sick and

Got better, you had to go and apologize to everyone one by one. I’m so sorry, I’m sorry for getting sick and leaving the work to you. I hope you get sick. Do they say this or is it something like this that is invisible to the eye? Is

This the rule that says it is superior? You know, are you going to apologize to everyone? I wasn’t asked for it. But everyone was apologizing, not you. I mean, they will look bad at you. I mean, they’re going to make you Japanese.

It’s interesting, but generally what I always say in these videos is that this stress in Japan is in the top one or two countries in the world. Although I know I have friends in Turkey who are very stressed,

The situation there is also a little bit related to the economic situation. Let me take a photo of you with the color of this autumn in Japan. It is very beautiful. Yes, the colors of the trees are very beautiful. We talked about stress and distress. Look, Japan also has such a

Stuck together, this is why I am going crazy. But my next works were very good, that’s why I wasted so much negative things like this, but we need to talk about the problems, we need to say them Because people are generally

Nice when they come here. They are very respectful. The streets are clean. Okay, they are visible, but there are also many things that are not visible. It is difficult in every country, I guess let’s stop like this for you.

What is your current job? Tell me, you are not working in a hotel right now. What is your current job? I am working in a company related to tourism. They also have such a media presence,

They do YouTube and Instagram. Shall I tell you? Okay, a company called BF, we sell tours through the platform right now. There, I manage a b2b partnership line and find a business partner. I do networking. How long have you been working? How long have you been in this job

? It’s been 4 months here. You don’t have any problems finding a job. As far as I understand, I haven’t experienced this. Yes, in general, it’s easy to find a job in Tokyo. I have an advantage. I studied here. When you study here,

A university becomes more comfortable. I’m going to take vitamin D to get a job. Something like this happened. I turned off the camera. The time you lived here is so long. I mean, I keep thinking like this in order not to miss those stories and experiences.

I give up, I have a different question. Tokyo If I didn’t live in Yes, which city in Japan would you like to live in? I love Tokyo very much, I don’t want to live anywhere else, hop kayd hop kayd hop kayd hop

Kayd I definitely can’t live in it, do you know? I’m still living in a peaceful, quiet place because of the cold. I’m not somewhere. I’ll go to the countryside yet, I’m not there yet. Yes, I’ll organize your garden,

Plant tomatoes, you don’t have such things, you don’t have them. Not yet. At least it’s still active. I want to be there, so if it’s not Tokyo, it’ll be a big city like Og Saka, I guess I live it very fondly. There are a lot of mixed people in Tokyo. Yes,

It’s stressful, but everything is here. You, yes, you can cope with that stress. Yes, I still get so tired. I don’t know where, but it shows my determination. For example, if I had gone through what you went through, I put myself in your shoes. Most

Likely, I would go somewhere like this . I would visit a place like this for 3 months, 5 months or a year. I would leave Japan and come to that stress. I probably wouldn’t be able to come. But you are on the contrary, the difficulty you experienced there is what you said.

Sometimes something positive and repulsive may have happened to you. Yes, not always , of course, but it is a good thing. In fact, I don’t know what else, I think I will either sink or rise. I think the situation is bad. There

Is no other option but to rise higher. Can you tell me about your future plans for Japan? I will stay in Japan for a long time. I’m thinking of living, I’m thinking. You said it with great pleasure. I thought if my mother would be upset if she watched

It. I came here by choosing to live. I want to stay here and live in the future. There are questions like that. Where do you want to see yourself in 5 years ? Japan. So, I want to be a businesswoman. I want to rise a lot in my job

, so of course I want to earn better money, better conditions. I always want it to be better in the future than it is now. Here, let me say that I want to be a good businesswoman. I mean, I want to be good at what I do.

I am already married. If you say a child or something, I am a child. You said it. Right now, I did not say it. I don’t think so at the moment . It seems right now. I think you are on a good path. Let’s see if something

Goes wrong. God is great. Selin is great. God is great. We pulled ourselves towards us. God is great. We got my vitamin D. We got the sun. Now let me ask Selin a little about the relations between boys and girls in Japan. Actually, I am very Japanese. I have a boyfriend

, I mean as a friend too. There are a lot of dating app users here. There are dating apps, more local apps. There are a lot of Japanese users here, and there are a lot of users too. I interrupted him, and

Then when I went to shoot a video, I went to a place like this. We entered the building and accidentally got off on a floor. I was wondering why, I asked you, you know there is an office called marriage, you go there, you give your information,

They shoot a girl or a boy according to you, so you find yourself in the municipality the next day, having fun. Yes, there is such a problem in society right now, especially. After you start working,

They say you become a jokey gin here, once your student life ends, you become a jokey gin. It’s so hard to meet someone, get together, start a relationship. And I heard this from so many of my friends that they all

Try to find friends through the App, both boys and girls, even we were joking around like this. Look. If you are Japanese because you found such a girl or something, of course there is that shyness. I think foreigners are more comfortable. Isn’t it a bit more preferred here

By Japanese people, whether they are girls or boys? If you are a blonde girl, I don’t know the guy. If you are a blonde girl, you don’t need to learn Japanese in Japan. In this way, you can either become a model or meet someone easily. Yes, that is

True, for example, maybe even a girl who would not be considered beautiful abroad. Yes , I will say What I Saw. It is a very interesting culture. It is because it looks different from them. Do you know what I see? They don’t

Look like normal people, they are just a line. They look like movie characters, Japanese people have an interesting point of view, but it really depends on the man. Of course, it is the men who are interested in foreigners. Of course, there are men who are interested in foreigners. Language is a problem.

They are the ones who do not speak English but do not approach me. If the girl speaks Japanese, that is a huge plus for them. That is to say, they are interested and want to talk Japanese. For example, let’s say Turkish relations , we are Turks now, it is different from Turkish relations

. Since my wife is Korean, I am also a little familiar with Korean relations. They are very similar to Koreans. After falling in love, you became boyfriend and girlfriend. Well, now you text and text, they see each other every day, right? Turks, I

Think so, but Of course, you can send a text message at night asking if you slept, or you don’t get permission to meet, for example, and if the appointment doesn’t arrive, for example, like this: You don’t say, we will meet twice in a week, okay? You know, deciding,

You become like a family in Turkey, there is such a thing here, then you, there is such a thing here, I was so surprised that I still even 80 got used to it, it is 10,000 kilometers away, but this is general. You know, when you compare it with people around the world,

It seems a bit strange in general that the Japanese people’s attitudes and behaviors are a bit weak in relationships, you have to reach out to your calendar, it’s this day, at this hour, there’s him, and there are events that take place afterwards, Duygu sister, they don’t know where to put their hands

On men. Since there are no emotionless dogs in Japan, these always seem strange. Relationships are more cold here. Cool-blooded, a little weaker. He doesn’t live that passionately. No high things. There are no high emotions. You’ve been here for a long time. A couple of them are on the street. Like this. Oh dear.

He saw you hugging and kissing like that because of pain. M Maybe it was very rare . You can count on one hand. Maybe for drunks, but you are a little more comfortable in Korea because your Korean wife is Korean. I always compare Japanese people when I see them,

They are very relaxed, you know, Tab is very friendly in those matters, for example, he approaches immediately if he wants to talk, he doesn’t ask if he would mind if I don’t talk, that’s why they are beautiful, their girls are beautiful, their boys are beautiful, of course

He gives great importance to him now. There is not a big difference between the celebrities in Japan and the girls you see on the street. I mean , you see a celebrity on TV like this, you see a girl, she is beautiful, the same girl can be on the street, but

In Korea, they are like Ok Pchar, etc., especially they are extremely beautiful like this. The ones on the street are Normal , I mean not bad, but Normal. The difference is greater in girls and boys, in Japan and in boys. There is also a man I see on TV on the street.

There is an abyss. You say there is no abyss, I mean there is not much of an abyss. That warm bloodedness in Korea attracts me more. That’s why I approach that side a little more moderately. For example, there was nothing my mother-in-law didn’t do, I mean, all kinds of

Care and plastic surgery were not allowed at that time, and she bought something for me before we got married, she bought such an aesthetic package, she said do whatever you want, be beautiful, come. My God,

She said this to me every time I went, Selin, have you gained weight, Selin, have you gained weight? Every time, he was saying, “Is this for the better?” In the bad way, in the bad way, in the bad way, ”

Have you gained weight, have you gained weight?” My wife was saying, “This is normal in our culture, we always ask like this, sweet problems or sweet problems, trouble.” So, is there plastic surgery now ? No, do you want it yet? His wife also had such an aesthetic surgery. This is also strange

. It seems strange. Normally, you ask a girl or a woman. I’m asking her husband if she has plastic surgery . Why did I react like this in the past? I’m saying it when I was younger. If she wants it. Let me press Now,

Friends, there is a situation like this, sometimes my wife is included in the videos I shoot. In fact, I ask for help from her as a cameraman. Usually, there is a text at the bottom of every video, why don’t you show your wife? The last time

You went to your parents, why don’t you show me? Do you know me, etc. He is a common person who gets tired and interprets things according to his different minds. Now, let’s listen to that issue from Selin’s perspective. My wife definitely does not want her photo and video to be shared

On social media. We had arguments with my wife many times in the past because of this. Because as a Turk, she considered it normal for my boyfriend’s picture to be shared. Uh-huh,

But they don’t want it, so they don’t want it. They don’t want to take it, now this time they will say, ” Your wife is Korean, the same thing happens in Japan. How do we know?” The answer to that is, ”

Yes, but he grew up in Japan, he grew up with Japanese culture, he is like a Japanese now. His heart is just like Japanese, that is, he is Japanese or, for example, his wife’s Why don’t you show your face? Japanese couples are always like this, but for example, I have friends,

There were so many people I worked with, I mean, there were so many people who I learned much later that they were married, in love, or had boyfriends. There were so many pictures of them on their social media, like this, hand in hand, cheek to cheek.

There is no such thing at all, they don’t put it, I mean young people put it a little, they say it more politely. I answer like this in order to appeal to the general public, there are also people writing about this subject in private. So, as the videos increase like this, it

Causes such stress for me. Where is the woman in particular? I answer exactly the same. I don’t answer, I block me. People like that shouldn’t follow me. Tell him your troubles. Tell him your troubles. His friend. Which person are you going to deal with?

Are you ashamed? It was like this, it was like that, etc. There are different conversations like this. Ayn My Turkish relatives say to me, “How is your marriage going?” Is it continuing? The man doesn’t want it now, what? Let me do it, they want to see it, and you said that.

We were not in that recording. Hanani, there is no such culture here. They don’t understand. There are no friends here. For example, now we talked about lovers and spouses, but even when sharing your friend’s picture, you have to ask for permission. That’s all for me.

What will they say? It’s stressful. Even when I go somewhere with a friend, I just share myself now because I don’t want to deal with getting permission with them, I’m bored, it’s a stressful job, going out on SNS

Is seen as something else, they change their voice to sound like a Turk, sometimes they change their voice on news channels. Yes, they don’t want to go out. I mean, you have to get permission, couples don’t appear much anyway

. This is normal for them because it’s his own face, his own body, let’s say so, we are telling about our experiences, this is what we experienced, this is what happened to us , my wife’s friends, Selin etc. I mean,

Why don’t you show your wife, your mother, your father? I got scolded by people for not showing my Japanese parents. Anyway B Anyway, let’s go to the magician thing, let’s go to the magician’s place . Why do the elderly need to work in Japan? I think it

Comes from this. In Japan, after the Second World War, there was a social mobilization to develop Japan. Everyone should work hard here. For their country and for this country. After the Second World War, yes, I did this when I was teaching English. I had some older students like this.

They told me that. That’s why it used to be like this. There was a culture of working as much as you could for your country. It was like a culture from that time. They are very old, they come from that culture. That’s why

They feel obliged to work for this country. That is, they do not want to be idle. There is also another thing, I mean, there is already an old culture here, the young population is low, so young and old are not looked at like we do, it is a little

Different. I think that also has a big impact. When you get out of things, there are almost no young people. Everyone is in the countryside, working on their fields here and there. It’s incredible, what do they say about walking, bent over, sitting down? They have tools

. He had been working at that hotel for 40 years, almost since the hotel opened, then of course he reached retirement age, he left, he started working elsewhere again, I couldn’t stay at home, so many of them are retired, for example, they don’t need money, their work culture is such that

They have a culture of being active, not just as a job, there is a job here. They want to deal with something that is useless.

They have a lot of hobbies, for example, it is a nice thing . Yes, it is good to have many good hobbies in that regard. But I don’t know if you find yourself working in Japan when you are 70 or 80. I don’t know if you would work at that age,

For example. Since we are not Japanese, there is such a situation. I don’t know if we can find ourselves in their shoes. Can I tell you something? Those who stay empty get older faster. I have seen this. For example, does shining iron

Shine? Is it shiny iron? There is such a thing as shiny iron . It doesn’t rust Exactly. For example, at my university, our professors were well-dressed. Their minds were sound. I was always thinking back then, and I said I wanted to be like that when I got old.

I couldn’t teach at the age of 70. I liked it because I wanted to teach. In fact, it reveals the difference between the Japanese and us . Sometimes when I go home I see those little kids He’s standing on the corner with a flag in his hand at school dismissal time.

I tell my uncle to go and sit at his house to help the children across the street. For example, he doesn’t look at me like that, that’s the simplest example. By the way, I can say that because I love him,

I might find myself cleaning the shit of such an animal in Hokkaido. But because I love him. Where to go? You want it. I love it. I love those places. Which month is the best month to come to Japan? If you want to choose a month,

Which month would you choose? It’s probably May or something. The summer gets a little humid. It gets humid. You say forget about June, July and August. Especially July and August. For example, I grew up in Antalya. Antalya is very nice. It’s hot or should I

Say there’s no humidity here. This place seems very bad to me. If it were me in the summer, I wouldn’t come in the winter. You chose May in the autumn, or you went to May Sakura, Sakura Sakur is very crowded, for someone who lives here, for anyone else. Bro, I

Will come for Sakura, I will see Japan, of course. It seems normal for someone who lives there. That’s right, everyone comes to see the sack. My month of choice is October. October is also very good. Yes, that’s right, write down those two months, May and October,

If you come, make a note of that too. 5 5 Aha it says cuero 5 there are so many things there are. All of them should be clubs. Isn’t this place Kabik Ku? It’s very colorful. Anything can happen. Here,

Kosava, these are K girl bars. It’s really an eye bar. You can sit there . It will be nice. Let’s see if it’s closed. Don’t say if it’s closed. If you call, I’ll come back right away. But no. Is it closed? Is this a bar? magician bar, magicians are here,

They bring you the magic, they perform, this is the concept , you call, it comes when you call, so look at the comfort of the future, when will it come, I’m coming right away, wait, the door is closed, mashallah, it’s Japanese,

It’s an infidel club, it’s a bar, there are places like this on each floor, there are places like this, it’s something specific to this building. It’s not like this. Every building is like this.

There are different shops in different places. The dance is empty. Look, they are looking for a man. Is it a man? It says so. How is a man looking for a woman? Search for a picture. Your facial expression has changed. Danse event. What is it

? It’s beautiful. It writes something very different. Rich women. Such a simple thing. We are looking for a man who can support, o tday, he says we are looking for a helper, he says rich, rich, that’s what he says, rich, you looked at me, but are you interested

, says Kantan Sapo, such a simple support to rich women, Simple can provide simple support, I understand their simple support, since they put such a place on 5 floors, 23 in a week. You are working hours

In a building, but look at the poster and write down the money, but of course there is no talk of money here, it’s like there, I don’t know, it’s like there, I don’t know, the subjects are watching, like Ika lived there,

The issues can turn around like this, with a slave around your neck, now I’m a little more curious. Look, there is a phone number, if you want to call, they will hold a show, they call now, Turkey. Countless phone calls from , but he writes a lot, friends, don’t call,

He writes a lot of money, I was saying, don’t do it. I remember once, it’s a lot of money. A speech cost 100 dollars or so, AE Of course, I didn’t know it at the time. Of course, when I paid it, I understood.

Oh, I will never do something like that from outside the sky again. Also, these places are very dangerous. While I was working at the hotel, there were many customers who came here and lost their money. There are a lot of things going on here. Tell Me, let’s listen like this.

This is Japan, these are all three, Anything is Possible. Of course they go, for example, they have different rules, getting a drink is a separate thing, I guess something happens . After that, it says “money stop”, it keeps writing,

There were people who had their cards withdrawn, people who lost huge sums of money. And Japan. I guess they were foreigners. Let me see. Yes. It was a foreigner, it’s very normal here. Men go and some of the women don’t see it as cheating. Some of the men also

Wanted to go, but they were going. There is also the one from the girl’s side of the mirror. Of course, I think that ‘s not a big deal. Unfortunately, it’s a bit of a sexist issue. But maybe if a woman

Goes, it will be seen as bad, but if a man goes When they leave, it is seen as bad. The woman thinks the same, the man thinks the same, they both think the same. Yes, they both think the same,

It is a very normal culture. They go there and talk only to the woman they are talking to. They say he doesn’t feel anything emotional towards you, you

Tell him to make a wolf noise, the girl howls there, for example, you tell him to make such a move, he does it like a slave, they can comply at that time, for example, you say, for evaluation purposes, you

Say, we paid Y, let’s not leave the girls idle for a few minutes, they cry like this, This is the right place, I believe it. I think it comes from something, do you know,

There was a geshe culture here in the past, it was a geshe thing here, men and women were making happy, whether it was with their dancing or accompanying them while eating, it is like a religious symbol in that religion, that woman has to do the work there, but I am me. It’s

Like I came here like that, that’s why It was normal. This is also considered normal. I think they don’t think about it because they earn good money. Because there is crazy money. We opened the Toruk Shop. It ‘s KC. Also, I won’t tell you. It will have a separate price.

It seems like he will give us 10,000 from here and send us off. He was bored. No. Half of these are erotic. The movie star looks like something is going to come up everywhere. If you look at the environment, put a little too much whiskey

In your hand. It’s Turkish for the first time. Wait, I ‘ll teach you a nice swear word. Let me teach you a good swear word. Come to your senses. He’ll give you a whiskey every hour. Give me a whiskey. Let’s drink that whiskey.

What’s the name of it? Kokoro kokoro. Kokoro. Kokoro. So many famous people find this place. It’s interesting that Jackie Chen is here. What is he doing here? Yes, isn’t Jackie Chen here? Thank you. What ‘s going on

? Is there something in his web? If we figure it out, he gives B. Let me love his eyes. If you understand, tell me. He’s a spider patient. He’s a mockery. Do it like that . He says pick a banana. Okay, we remember what it is. Something like this, I don’t know

If it was there or not, I didn’t see it either, brother, those who saw it should comment in the comments, you set up the golden system of the video, fuck the man , I chose 4, 4, how many did you choose, I didn’t understand, but he asked if we know each other’s numbers,

We know the number AB once. You’ve done it yet , wait, I haven’t changed it, let me see. Okay, now it’s my turn. I did one too. I haven’t changed it at all. Are you bringing me the numbered dice? Is there something

Underneath? If two and one come from there, I say no more. Look, no, bro. Did you bring a rigged dice? Well done, the money will come up one above the other . Let’s go, can I take a look inside that glass?

He put it in your mouth. It says Tokyo. He put it in your mouth. Yes, where is the paper? GTİ? Take it somewhere? It confused me . It won’t come out, right. We don’t need that one . Look, let it not come out. It will make Tok. It says Tokyo

. I’ll be surprised if Tokyo comes out. Well, it doesn’t say Tokyo. Right? God has been doing this job for how many years has he been doing this job Mashallah, how old is he ? 46 This is a joke,

How is this 46 This is definitely a joke, have you ever seen a Japanese person like this, 46? They are young people. It ‘s impossible. This is a lie. I look older than this. I was 50 at that time. 46 It’s 4000 years old, man, look at me,

Look at this, it’s 4000, I’m obsessed with money, if it blows you away, it deserves money. What is this, the toilet door, let me pull it first, look at the toilet door, it’s so different,

It opens with all of them, push it, it’s at an angle, I’ll go out, I won’t go in and give up. Look at the toilet , it’s very different. Does water come out of all of these? No, it doesn’t. These are

Toys. Look at my brother’s toilet paper. Is it an interesting bag? The hand fell. Something happened . I gave the hand. I won’t do much. Stop. I ‘ll leave. I won’t go in. It’s very different. You’re scared. You start. It’s normal paper. This is here. Nothing as much as every

Okay, I poured water, I take a good look at the glasses, be careful, ok and Next is Dis Magic ok Please copy me Dance Time and please Turn Turn Turn Turn very good ok Can Feel and What i disappear can Feel i can Feel Can Feel

Okay No problem F Time Next Time ok ok three Two one Go Go never chooses me, look, it’s always you who choose me Come on Selin let it fly, see how she does it, does it take off? Does it have a button or something? Do you have a button for it or something?

I swear, it flies. How does it do it? Do you see it? Is there a rope or something? It flies very easily. Oh my God , there is nothing under it. It’s normal wood. It’s interesting. Let me look at it from a corner. Duru. What are you doing

? Aha. It’s folded in half . Can I look inside ? I was wondering if there was an arrow inside. I wanted to take a look so that I don’t get stuck in my mind. Okay, we shot everything quickly, let’s also

Record the moment of giving the money. It’s important, 10,000 is going, he deserves it in the end. How many years has he been doing this job? Give it bro, there is such a thing, why didn’t he tell us about it, we looked at it on Yoube and you know that this thing

Is crazy, it messed up our minds, of course we will fall for everything he says, but at least he opened the door , he didn’t come, such things do not happen in real life. No, he did it down to us, how young is he? I

Really never said he was 46. I wish we had looked at his identity. This time has flown by like water. I swear it was very nice. Yes, it was nice. It was an interesting and entertaining video. Thank you, Selin did not disappoint me. We talked about Japan

. See you in the next video, take care Mr.

Bu videoda Japonya’da 9 senedir yaşamakta olan Selin Tokyo ile Tokyo’da güzel bir sohbet edeceğiz.

📌Japonya’da 17 Sene 👉https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bF2CTQOKn0U&t=13s
📌Tokyo Bit Pazarı 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tu0gMwy3qnY&t=520s
📌Tokyo’da 1 Günde Ne Kadar Harcıyorum 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUJwm8yL0IQ&t=68s
📌Tokyo’da Bir Yazılımcı – Japonya Sokak Röportajları 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Urss0jgWYzE&t=731s
📌Japon Anne Babamın Elini Öpmeye FUKUOKA’YA Gidiyorum 👉https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=woY_j57lPfs
📌Tokyo’da Aylık Alışveriş Yapıyoruz 👉https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kf_-HiVQzgs&t=162s
📌Japonya’da Cadılar Bayramını Kutluyoruz 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tXjGerwqY14

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