인간관계에 상처받아 힐링하러 도망친 일본 섬
Worst! Hello everyone. I’m currently at Takamatsu Port and will be taking a day trip to an island called “Naoshima.” Well, some of you might be a little surprised that I’ve been using the word “worst” from the very beginning, but I ‘ve been having a bit of a mental breakdown lately, should I say? I’ve been betrayed, cut off, and been through a lot of difficult times! It’s been such a storm , it’s been so intense that I wondered if anything could possibly be worse than this . It’s been sweeping through my relationships. (Naoshima) I looked it up and found this neighborhood full of art galleries and other things . So I came to Takamatsu to heal, to try to heal my wounded heart a little. “Oh, I’m not in my right mind right now (please understand with an open mind)” I think I’ll be like this throughout this video; I’ll probably lose my composure a bit as I go along . I’ll explain as I go. Are we going on that boat? Are we going to Naoshima on that boat? (Entering the port) I’m going to take the 10:14 ferry, and it’s 6,800 won one way for one adult. I think I should just pay this for now, right? Yes, go on in~ We’re going to take the ferry. It’s bigger than I thought, right? ?? They even carry buses?! The name of the ship is “Asahi”.. “Asahi”? Beer..? I’m at the top floor now, and since the weather is nice, it seems like everyone is sitting here enjoying the view. There are seats down here too, right? There are actually a lot of seats. As soon as I came up here, there are indoor seats lined up like this . By the way, these aren’t assigned seats, so it’s first come, first served. But since I came up here, I could either go up here and go to the temple to find a seat, or go back up there and find an outdoor seat . There are two ways. But it was so cold yesterday that I’m bundled up in a padded jacket, a cardigan inside, and a turtleneck, but it’s hot; it’s November 20th right? Is this weather okay? And just for reference, that building under construction is a hotel . Is it the Hilton Hotel? Or the Marriott Hotel? Anyway, they say they’re building a luxury 5-star hotel, and they’re also building a ryokan to go with it in Naoshima . So they have ambitions to operate it as a set. But I just realized this : There are so many Koreans here; (The 200 million Korean population was confirmed today) I hear Korean everywhere; Naoshima seems to be secretly popular . There are a lot of middle-aged people there! My mom said she wanted to go to Naoshima someday, so she showed me (the photo) (I went to see it later). There’s a pumpkin piece by Yayoi Kusama. There are a lot of middle-aged people who are interested in art, right? Isn’t it because it’s an island that can satisfy such needs that many people go there? If you look at the bottom of the ship, it feels a bit like this. It ‘s a place called the Seto Inland Sea, and although it looks calm now , the water inside is very deep and the current is very fast, so it’s said to be one of the secretly dangerous seas. It’s kind of like my current situation. I’m going like this from Takamatsu (arriving at Naoshima in an hour). When you get off the ship, there’s a bus stop. It seems like you can take a bus there . They said that the bus service is so good now that you don’t have to bring a car to get around without any inconvenience. (It’s true that it’s exciting.) I suddenly feel excited? Feeling good? I need to travel. Rather than just staying cooped up in my room like a hikikomori because something bad happened, I think it would be better to just get my body moving for a little while and go somewhere new like this, even if it’s a little difficult . Isn’t the bus so cute?ㅋ It feels like a village bus in size, but it’s exactly like that daycare bus. The daycare bus fare is 1,000 won (bus fare is payable after boarding) (Pasmo: Japanese local transportation card) I don’t think Pasmo is accepted, only cash. This is the final stop, so I’ll transfer to the shuttle there. The first place to go is the “Chichū Art Museum,” which has high ratings and almost always requires a reservation? Anyway (reading reviews) “Monet inside Tadao Ando’s building…” (Roughly meaning you can see the works of famous artists) Tadao Ando.. About 3-4 months ago*, I went to a museum or art gallery designed by Tadao Ando in Jeju Island (it was called “Bonte Museum”). I heard that this guy used to be a boxer ? You said you were going to build a building primarily out of concrete. Oh, so there’s a painting called “Monet’s” Water Lilies at the Jijung Art Museum ! It’s really famous (something like that), it’s a really long painting, and it ‘s filled with water lilies… water lilies. Because it’s so famous, many people from overseas come to see it. People who have reservations are waiting inside right now, and they only let you in at the appointed time, 100% by reservation . They won’t let me in even if I show up early . And I wanted to see the water lilies, but I didn’t have a reservation, so they made a real-life painting based on the painting ! (Passing by on the way to the museum) Looking at the real-life water lilies, I thought, “You can’t see them here very well; there’s a small water lily blooming over there . It’s floating. Anyway, it’s really pretty when you capture it on screen!” This is healing. I used to think life was meaningless, but seeing this makes me think, “Well , maybe not yet… the world is worth living in.” And seeing my thoughts change like this Environment seems important. Before coming to Naoshima, I was dying, but when I see this clump of grass, it’s healing. Am I getting old? (I visited the “Lee Woo-han Art Museum” with regret.) This person is a minimalist? I heard so. He said he enjoys contemplation, meditation, and spacing out, so I thought this might be the space I need right now, so I came here. The weather is so nice, my heart is burning, and I feel like it’s all Lee Woo-han’s work. (=I don’t know.) Contemporary art itself makes me think a lot… a lot of thoughts, should I say? Aren’t these works created to be emptied in the first place ? Review 3.9 The reason I like his work is because when I look at it, it feels like only the work itself (the review is also very artistic) and myself looking at it exist. I also heard there’s a prize called the “Benesse”! It’s an award given to artists. If you win, you get full support to work on your art in Naoshima ! So, I heard there’s a system in Naoshima where you can eat, sleep, and freely pursue your artistic pursuits . So, since the people who receive the award and work here are all supported, they can live without worry and pursue their desired endeavors. Isn’t that great? In terms of BJs, they’re big spenders, right? Benesse is a big spender, supporting the artists. I’m filming as I enter the museum. These works are all architectural masterpieces by Tadao Ando. Usually, they build the building first and then add the artwork inside . But here, they do the opposite: they build the artwork inspired by the artist first, and then build the building to match that artwork! (Tickets are cheaper online.) 12,000 won online, 14,000 won here. Photography is prohibited in front of here . (Honest review of the museum) These artworks are there. What you see in this pamphlet is all there is. When you first enter, this is the first space you see. This guy was the most impressive. He uses a beam projector to project images onto this shadow. That’s a bit unusual (the ocean is a good mood changer, haha) Ah, this is the beach like this . Ah, over there! Yayoi Kusama’s “Pumpkin,” which can be considered Naoshima’s signature work, became famous when it was first installed in Naoshima , and the artist’s life story is quite sad! She grew up in a divorced family and suffered from mental illness. She had depression and mental illness, so she has digested that into her work. I’ll show you later , but (on the pumpkin) there are just dots all over it? She said that she found peace of mind and depression by putting dots . That’s the story. But if you think that you found peace of mind by putting dots like that, then that’s fortunate. But these days, there are people who don’t know how to heal their pain or how to do it . So, the artist knows how to find peace of mind (a life of finding stability and money… what’s the worst?) And she’s making money! She’s famous and making money, right?! (I shouted out of envy) .. I suddenly got carried away while talking. If you look closely, it looks like this. You’re lining up to take a picture with that pumpkin , but the line is actually much longer than this! Every three years, a big art festival (the Setouchi Triennale) is held. It was held this year, but it’s over now, but I heard that the line gets even longer around that time. Wow! There are a ton of bicycles here, and I think they’re renting them out. There’s a bike rental service, right? I think they’ll rent them out for the whole day , so I think it would be nice to rent a bike and ride around Naoshima! I rented one once on Tsushima Island and rode around, and it was great (you can see various styles of houses). Now, I’m waiting for the bus to go to the last area, the Honmura area of the “Ie Project.” I’m going to take the 1:54 bus. If you’re tired of relationships or have been deeply hurt in life, I really hope you come to Naoshima! It’s healing. It’s nothing special, but just walking around, looking at art, and seeing the ocean like this makes me forget, “Am I really hurt?” When I go back to the mainland, the painful reality , bad energy, and bad feelings might creep up again, but I think things will get better than before I came here, so I’m working on covering up the bad memories with good ones . No, I really want to be honest and pure, trust people, and be close to them, but because everyone has their own circumstances and positions, it’s so sad that the reality is that we can’t do that . Why can’t we all just like each other purely? (Bitter) I can’t go into details, but I recently found out that someone I thought was kind had a dark side, and I was devastated. It didn’t take a huge hit financially, but I’m still a bit emotionally. I genuinely liked this person and wanted to be close to them, but after that happened, I can’t always judge people favorably. On top of that, I thought I was really close to a friend, but he suddenly cut me off; I don’t know for sure, but I think that friend had a lot of things he had been saving up for himself. We were close until yesterday, but today, he suddenly cut ties with me. After going through that and having a sudden breakup with someone who was two-faced, I realized that people aren’t always what they seem. Well, I knew that, but experiencing it firsthand is a different matter . Understanding it in your head and actually experiencing it are two different things, right? I just stopped seeing people as being all that positive! After that incident, I was really devastated. I had no choice but to escape and find healing. But if I kept feeling disappointed and thinking , “I can’t trust people anymore…”, there was no benefit to me . There are plenty of people in the world, and I could meet better ones, so I broadened my horizons. I learned about life. That’s how I think about it . What can I do? This is how you learn about life. Isn’t that right? (15 minutes later, arriving at the Homura district) Just keep walking from here. And by the way, I heard that Takamatsu was going to build a hotel next to here, and they’re building a ryokan (here) to go with it. (First impression of the Homura district) It’s just like the countryside? If you go to the countryside in the old days, they were all built out of wood, but these houses are really blackened, right? I looked into it and found out that they intentionally burned the wood . Since this is near the sea, it’s prone to rotting, so they intentionally burned it to extend the life of the wood . “Honmura Guesthouse” Wow, this is a guesthouse? Isn’t it so sentimental? The Tadao Ando Museum… It’s 7,000 won to get in (the basic admission fee is 10,500 won). So, since you had to pay to even come into this village , it seems like developing your artistic eye also comes down to money. This is where everyone… Naoshima people live now, but I heard that the conditions for living here are extremely strict. It ‘s not like you can just say, “I want to come and live here,” and move in. You either have to have ancestors who settled here , or you have received support and permission to engage in artistic activities. The conditions are a bit strict. Still, this neighborhood has a population of 3,000. While walking down the street, I came across an unknown shrine. It says something like that, but I don’t know how to read it. This is the temple next to the shrine . If you look to the left, you’ll see a goblin face. If you look to the right, you ‘ll see a family crest. They say it’s the symbol of the Tokugawa Ieyasu family. It goes up higher than I thought, but is it really necessary to climb any higher? It seems a bit too strenuous to be called a walking trail; Oh no! If I’m this tired after climbing this much; I should exercise? Man, if I, who used to work out diligently, saw this, I think I’d be really dumbfounded; Haa , when I was working out a lot, I couldn’t understand people who would pant after climbing just a few stairs, but here I am! (Suddenly) I really need to build up my stamina if I’m going to travel a long time in the future . This is so embarrassing…! What should I do? Ah, normal . Make a wish over there and tie it up here. This shrine’s symbolic glass stairs go down to the basement through the stone floor. But you can’t see it from here. It’ll be really slippery when it rains. (I came to the port but it looks like it’s near my house;) If you don’t tell me, I can just say Dadaepo and it doesn’t feel out of place at all.. That’s the scenery. If you keep going straight and turn, you’ll come to the last place to see. After looking around Naoshima, I felt that this island itself has been designated as an art district, so it’s great for feeling the artistic sensibility and culture. One thing that’s disappointing is that since I’m taking this video, there’s no place to take videos! (Only photos are allowed). I want to see the artwork and leave a vivid memory with a video , but there are so many places that don’t let me do that, which is a shame!! And the additional fee is too high; I don’t know how much I paid for the basic admission fee, but since there are places that charge extra fees for little things even if you buy a package ticket, the cost is a bit disappointing. There are two of them? ㅋ This one looks a bit like the one that stole my life at Tsuedate Onsen (It’s time to go back now) Since we arrived at 3:18:22 now (I looked around briefly until the bus arrived) This is a bathhouse that is actually operated in Naoshima .. It’s like a love hotel. There are 27 islands in Naoshima Pavilion Kagawa, and there is a hole that goes into the 28th island . Oh, when you go inside, it feels like a bird trapped in a cage; It’s something like this . I’m trapped. ㅋ The last red pumpkin can fit inside, so it’s much bigger than the yellow pumpkin from before. The hole is made separately like this! Like this (lol) (A passerby who was taking a picture of me because it was funny lol) (Now that I think about it, I’m finally eating;) There’s rice and beer, and it’s salty~ a little bit.. rest stop quality? lol I’ll eat well. There was so much to see that I didn’t even think about eating rice! (First, a bite of rice) The soy sauce flavor is strong. (A bite of chicken) Ahem.. It’s higher quality than I thought? It’s a little salty, but the chicken meat is tender! Anyway, I spent the whole day exploring Naoshima. I arrived at 10 and it was almost 4. I ate and waited until 5. Almost 7 hours? It was quite a lot! Honestly, I didn’t have high expectations, but there was more to see than I thought, and getting around wasn’t too inconvenient. The bus schedule was perfect (I recommend this to people like you). Anyone interested in art or wanting to travel to a Japanese island? There’s a lot to see here, so a day trip would be great. And since there’s accommodations , either a day trip or an overnight stay would be great! But if you stay overnight, there’s surprisingly little to eat here… and there aren’t many convenience stores, right? (There’s one.) So it might be a bit inconvenient. Hey~ There’s no one upstairs! It was incredibly hot when I was there earlier, but now that the sun’s starting to set, the wind has gotten chilly! If you come without a jacket because it’s hot during the day… it’s incredibly cold! Wow… Still, it’s winter after all… The sun sets quickly, right? It’s winter, winter! It’s winter in Japan too. Bye from Naoshima~ㅋㅋ I’m heading back to Takamatsu for work from here ! Bye~ Goodbye Naoshima! (1 hour later) I feel like I’ve been on a really long trip (it feels like 2-3 days). I feel a little better, but it’ll take some time to fully recover . From now on, I’ll just think about what’s ahead. I think that’s good for my mental health. Anyway, that’s it. Thank you for watching until the end, and I’ll see you in the next video. Let’s all be happy. Let’s cheer up in life. Bye~
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나이가 들면 들수록 인간관계는 점점 좁아지는 것 같아요..! 상처를 크게는 안 받으셨길 바라며.. 앞으로 좋은일만 가득하실 거예요!!🍀🍀✨
(전 계속 연서님 구독하고 응원하겠습니다!!!🥺)
영상 잘 봤습니다 인간관계..가 사실 제일 어려운 거 같아요.
저도 이제는 적당한 관계에 어느 정도 거리를 두고 큰 기대 없이 무난무난하게 지내는데 익숙해져 버렸네요..
평소 일에 대한 스트레스나 기존 인간관계에서 벗어나고 싶을 때는 평소 좋아하던 일본여행 다니면서 밸런스를 맞추고 있어요
뭔가 새롭고 낮선 환경이지만 남 눈치 볼일도 없고 뭔가 긴장감과 편안함이 공존하는..? 그런 느낌이 좋더라구요 ㅎㅎ
시간이 해결해 주겠지만.. 아무튼 여행 다니시면서 힐링하시고 새로운 사람들과 또 만나다보면 그새 잊혀질겁니다! 힘내세요 😄
🎉🎉🙏
엄지척 우리데리고 언제 가나여~
대부분 사람들은 이기적인 동물…‼️
최근 배신과 이용당하고
느낀 교훈은…
좋은사람한테만 좋은사람이 되자🙏🏻
시골 쪽으로 여행오셨군요 시간나시면 히로시마쪽도 와보세용~~ 산지 쫌 됐는데 시내 빼고는 그래도 외국인이 비교적 적어서 살만합니다^^
원래 인생은 독고다이에요 너무 마음쓰지마세여 ㅎ 더좋은사람이 많답니당 하지만너무믿지마시고 적당한선이 유지하시는게 최곱니다😊
안녕하세요 연서님 스트레스 받으실
때는 여행 취미생활이 최고죠 일본 에 고양이섬도 있는데 그쪽 알아보
시고 가시지 그러셨어요 마을버스가
귀엽네요 미술관 주변이 멋지네요
연서님 스트레스 바다에 줘버리세요
오늘 영상 잘 보았어요
늘 행복하세요^^
저는 소도시마로 갔었었는데
거기 케이블카타고 올라가는 곳이 아주 경치가 끝내줍니다.
봄에 벗꽃있을때 갔었는데 영상을 보니까 겨울 눈 내렸을때도 가보고 싶네요….
친구가 생선을 안먹어서 거기서 유명한 금눈돔도 못먹고와서 언젠가 겨울에 리벤지하러 가야겠어요..ㅋ
누나 언제든 힘들때는 힐링하러와 ㅎㅎ
역시 연서님은 보호자가 필요해~^^…
힘든 시간을 보내시는 와중에 좋은 영상 감사합니다. 저도 마음과 정신, 상황이 비슷한데 아파서 누워만 있어야해서 무지 답답했어요. 연서님의 영상으로 힐링….다음 영상에서 또 만나요. 파이팅!
이번 여행은 그냥 현타 여행이라 해야겠네여~~~인생 힘내요~
상처받으셨다고요? 어 그러면 않되는데 토닥토닥
오 피부하얀이쁜여자
원래 인생은 돌고 도는것 아닌교 너무 신경쓰지 말고 하고 있는거 열심히 하면 다 지나갑니데이.
살다보니 뭐 그쵸 ㅋㅋㅋ하하하
염소상 호박을 프린트해서 점을 찍으면서 힐링을 해보셔요(?)
ㅎㅎ 이거까지 안되면 이제 점 찍은거를 이어보셔요 천천히 그러면 조금 나아지지않을까….생각해봅니다.
나중에 일본 놀러오셔욥ㅋㅋㅋ 2027년에요 ㅋㅋㅋ디엠드려보겠습니다
정신병자 작품 앞에서 왈왈도 하고 짝짝도 하는게 소위 인간 군상들 이니 그러니 기운내세요^^ 화팅!
얼굴보니 별것 아닌듯합니다(농담)
이번 일이 뭔지 잘은 모르지만 살다 보면 지금 보다 더 사람에게 배신당하는 일이 있을 수 있습니다
스스로 잘 극복 하시길 기원합니다.
화이팅~~~~연스어~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
오기도 하고 가기도 하고 만나기도 하고 헤어지기도 하고 결국 세월이 약이겠지요 .~~ 이미 지나간 것에 대해서는 나와 인연이 다해서 간 것이니 잘잘못을 생각하며 너무 마음 쓰지말고 그냥 놓아버리자는 마음먹기를 해도 도움이 조금 될 것 같습니다.^^
농담 아니고 장난 아니고 <순수!> 하면 나 임 바로 나 임 ㅎ
I think what I appreciate most about your videos is how genuine they feel. You’re not trying too hard, you’re just being yourself — and that authenticity is exactly what makes your content so enjoyable.
[긴급] 힐러 구함, 경력직 우대. 사대보험 초과근무 수당 지급.
– 임무 : 연서짱 케어
– 조건 : 연서의 지평선 구독자
그렇습니다!
나오시마 너무좋죠
다시가고싶은곳
이또한 지나가리라~~~~~
그냥 지나 갑니다. 신경 쓰지 마세요 . .
사랑 합니다
좋은 여행 되시길 바랍니다
인간관계 인생공부 힐링하러 나오시마~
저와 같은 길을 걷고 계시네요
시간이 지나니 슬 아주 조금씩 괜찮아지더라구요
힘내세요~^^
まあ、人生いいことばかりでないよね、思い通りにいかないことばかり。でも人生の流れの中で一瞬、’良かった’と思える時があります。そのために生きているのではないかな。
별일 아니에요 긴세월 살다보면
나중엔 있었는지도 모르는 일들이 될거에요
무슨일인지는 잘 모르겠으나..힘내세요
그리고 시간이 약입니다.
나오지마 섬으로 들렸네 ㅋㅋ😂
요즘 주변분들 사람때문에 힘들어하시는걸 많이보게 되는대 연서님에게도 그런일이 ㅠㅠ 힘내시고 영상도 잘찍으시려고 노력하시는거보니 시청하는 저로써는 좋습니다
연서님 힘내세요 사람으로 인한 상처는 사람으로 치유가 될꺼예요 앞으로도 영상 잘부탁드려요 파이팅!
법륜스님께서 이런 말씀을 하셨죠. 가는 사람 붙잡지 말고 오는 사람 막지 마라. 떠나는 인연에게 그동안 이렇게 부족한 나를 만나줘서 고맙고 감사했습니다 라고 생각하라고 했습니다. 행복해지세요 연서님~
시간이 자연스럽게 해결해 줄 겁니다 ㅠㅠ 너무 낙담하지마시고 힘내시길 바라요!
비슷한 경험 저도 했어요ㅠㅠ 그냥 있는 그대로 얘기하는데 그걸 이중적으로 받아들여버리는 사람을 우리가 어떻게 할 수 없더라 하는..ㅎ 오히려 그런 사람과 관계가 정리되는게 더 편할 수도 있어요 저도 지금은 이때 관계정리가 된게 다행이다 생각이 듭니다 화이팅하십쇼ㅎㅎ
이우환 공간 부산에도 있어여 일본에서 아주 유명했다고 하던데 비우고 싶은데 가득찬 그런 느낌이라 여기서 복합적인 인간관계를 또 생각하게 됐던것 같아요ㅎㅎ
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대학생부터 20년지기 후배가 있었는 데 서로 힘든 시기 이런 저런 일도 있고 서로 으샤 하며 지냈는 데
후배 가족들도 언지를 줬으나 뭔지 모르다 시간이 흘러서 후배 본모습을 알게 되고 가족들이 말한 게 무엇인 지 앟게 되고 손절 딩하고 6년 넘게 연락 안하고 지넴
인간관계에 지쳤는데 댓글이 난무한 유튜버에 영상 올림 ㅋ
힘들 때 좋은 곳에 다녀오셨네요. 또 좋은 사람과 인연 맺으셔서 잊어버리시길
연서님의 이쁜 마음 언젠가는 있는그대로 사랑해줄 사람들 만날거에요!인간관계에 실망하더라도 상대방을 순수하게 있는그대로를 좋아하는 마음은 결코 잃어버리지 마시길 바래요!멀어지는 인연 굳이 잡지마시고 마음으로 보내주세요!
저도 최근에 알았는데 다 잘지낼 필요는 없어요..오히려 그런 인연 억지로 붙잡으면 다른오해가 생기고 제가 더 상처받더라구요..
더 좋은 인연이 기다리고 있을테니 잘가라 인사해주시고 그 인연이가야 좋은 인연이 올테니까..연서님 화이팅!
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